What does it mean when a guy calls you a "good girl"?

Question

boyfriend called me a good girl what that mean?

luvstoned4him · Accepted Answer

I get called that by good and and bad guys. It means you are someone who they might marry or settle with. Not a hoe or a thot.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

When they tell me that I always respond “yes daddy”? But that’s just me. 🤷🏼‍♀️

geo_logy · Accepted Answer

Well, when is he exactly calling you that? Is it in a regular conversation you’re having with him? Or is it during sex?

GuidoThePizzaMaker · Accepted Answer

It means that he loves you He wouldn't be with you if you werent

Summeroflove · Answer

Look we can’t read minds. Ask him he said it

Pinay_ako · Answer

Good girl means wifey material.

Avicenna · Answer

He likes your character

Finchie40 · Answer

Usually a compliment, Most guys want a good girl , he wants a girl that stays loyal
To him and that has morals , that doesn’t run around spreading her legs to random guys , that can stay faithful and only wants sex with him , When a guy finds a good girl , he will more than likely try to keep her by his side at all costs , barely any guys will commit to a girl that has a bad reputation of getting around , he might fuck her but he won’t stay committed to her , He isn’t going to give his heart to a girl that has no moral values , that can’t stay loyal and faithful , He will kick her to the curb where she belongs

Just_call_me_Levi · Answer

It's usually playful teasing and endearing, I have three platonic girl friends I call "good girl" often, it usually makes them blush and happy.

I also have this one girl who I'm sexually interacting with, with her it's an SM thing.

So to answer your question, it depends on your level of trust and your relationship with them, you certainly shouldn't say it to someone who's not comfortable being called that.

I also know of some men who want to be seen as "The Man™" so badly, they're overcompensating and calling girls something demeaning because they think that's what they like, completely forgetting the "trust" part you need to foster over time. Since practically no one likes actually being looked down on, outside from play.

strateguy632 · Answer

depends on tone, sometimes it means a complaint wanting intimacy you "good girl" waiting til marraige as a complaint. sometimes its respect accepting friend zone. i wouldn't say it unless she called me "thats a good boy," way we praise pets, then i could echo at her. otherwise sounds like pets.

TheIrishWolf · Answer

Sex came ti my mind when I read that 😂

Anyway... I think it's just playfulness, and there no harm.. But it can mean many things depending in the context.

Sex: good girl, I like that
Academic: she's too much of a good girl she won't come out.
Completed a task: good girl. Fair play.

Overall, its probably a good thing. I think he's expressing his value.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Calling you a good girl is their way of saying they're more mature and experienced than you. Pay attention to their tone, especially to see if they're being sarcastic.

Justmeagain1 · Answer

Depends on the context..” good girl “ I personally reference it to a sexual thing with my now ex. I would like to think that it’s
Generally a means of someone letting you know that they think you are wholesome.

SkipStop · Answer

It means that you are sweet and innocent. You are often relaxed and friendly. You avoid sparking controversy. You know how to behave like an adult and easy to get along with.

PhenomenalQueen · Answer

I was called this by a guy and he broke my heart into a million pieces.. It just means you’re a good person, or at least that’s how he said it about me. Maybe something to do with our personality and or character, morals, etc..

Logorithim · Answer

He thinks highly of you

needhelp777 · Answer

My boyfriend does the same thing  It means good girl

RavVid · Answer

You've done something that he likes/appreciates possibly at his request. Often it could be sexual like sucking him but can be non sexual like tidying up. Certainly an approving appreciation of your value to him.

Rambler221 · Answer

It depends on the tone. Was he saying it like a joke? Then he may have been joking that you are like a dog, and praising you like one.
That isn't as bad as it sounds.

If he sounded serious, it means what it means. He regards you as being high value and wants you to know that.
That's as good as it sounds.

Note that with the first, it doesn't mean he disrespects you at all.

Exterminatore · Answer

In short that you’re gf/wife material. You’re not a whore, bitch or nag. You can be trusted. You do the right things more often than not.  It’s a good thing.

LittleSally · Answer

Treating you like a dog? No, I'm kidding, I guess it means you are good person and maybe they don't see themselves as 'good' and therefore maybe they're not for you.

Nik1hil · Answer

You are his baby now, or a pet!.. 😏😏

Person901 · Answer

Was it a sexual context? Cause if so its obvious. Its meant as a playful sexual comment. I don't wanna like make you uncomfortable so I won't give an example. If it wasn't in sexual context and wasn't said with tone of voice implying such things. Its really hard to say. Maybe you could add some context?

summiter · Answer

Do you think he means that you are good at sex or just a normal good girl. You might just have to ask him what he means by it

DubiousIntentions · Answer

Was that Good Bar or Good Bye?

Christoff92 · Answer

He resembles you like someone famous from the Brady Bunch 😊

FreyaRed · Answer

I would reply "... and you're a good boy... and now sit!"

glennos89 · Answer

I think it was a compliment because of the fact that you are hard to get. Something that most men appreciate

Fireguy17 · Answer

I have to go with a very nice person, fun to be with, responsible, kind to others, hard working, just a really nice person to be with.

PizzaDaddyo · Answer

He’s buttering you up! What dude wants a goodie two shoes who never takes off her trousers, not me!

Thatsamazing · Answer

... it means you're a good girl. Literally what else would it mean.

Alaskan_123 · Answer

I like to think men call me that as a compliment. because I do try to be a good Christian girl.

Anonymous · Answer

It usually means you're doomed and he's gonna fuck you over sooner or later. From my humble experience lol

Jazzy54 · Answer

What were you guys doing in that moment? Having sex and you did something he liked?

Anonymous · Answer

It means he sees you great over every other girl and possibly likes you enough to either marry you or make you his partner

Andres77 · Answer

was it during a bj? context would help

VikingWarLord · Answer

I only say that after getting good head or she calls me DADDY - SIR or MASTER

whitehide · Answer

According to the Atbash cipher it means "TLLW TRIO"

007kingifrit · Answer

in what context, were you wearing a leash? did he pat your head? did you poop outside for the first time?

Shy_Steve · Answer

Usually it means he hasn't probably seen you do anything that bad, It's usually a desirable Trait.

mommymommymommy · Answer

People who obey According to dominatrix's, it's people who obey

boobliker · Answer

well you did not spit is all I can think of!

LiamJHayden · Answer

Depends upon the context, but usually it should be taken at face value.

Guardian45 · Answer

It means you're someone worthy of investing time with.

up_64 · Answer

Depends. Is he spanking you in bed or hugging you at breakfast?

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

He's teasing you probably mad you won't give up the kitty and if you had sex with him it means your the shit

JonesT10Apr · Answer

he likes your behaviour or character or talks... as (may be girlfriend/ wife... perhaps friend, but rarely sister)

Ryfyle · Answer

You're a neurotic 30 year old woman that over thinks simple things into hysterical complexes.

shades777 · Answer

Thats she's good, definitely doesn't mean something negative like when a woman calls a man "nice"

jimmy2 · Answer

That means you are 100% what he needs. Honest and on sound footing

Anonymous · Answer

That you seem like a girl that never tried anal and he aims to change that

shay12 · Answer

It's a compliment. Be happy. He sees you that way.

thomual · Answer

It means you won't have sex

Mariena_Anne92 · Answer

He’s flirting I guess 😂

Secret6620 · Answer

Very innocent, smart, and a hardworker.

ShadowMonarch · Answer

He probably meant in a positive way

OfMiceandMen · Answer

He means you are one of the good ones.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

That could mean various things.

Alanfra · Answer

It means that he's patronising you

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

You did something he liked.

LovingJo · Answer

It can mean many things. It depends on the context

elizamichale1 · Answer

Means he is being cheeky

humanearth · Answer

Means your not a slut

FunkyMonkee · Answer

It means he has to have his eyes checked!!

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