Well, when is he exactly calling you that? Is it in a regular conversation you’re having with him? Or is it during sex?
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I refused to have sex with him and he was upset cos he's an immature 20 year old 🙄 didn't get what he wanted. We went out, for pizza and we talked about our goals etc and went back to his house where he said "you're a good girl." I don't know if he meant that to be patronising or to be a compliment.
Usually a compliment, Most guys want a good girl , he wants a girl that stays loyal To him and that has morals , that doesn’t run around spreading her legs to random guys , that can stay faithful and only wants sex with him , When a guy finds a good girl , he will more than likely try to keep her by his side at all costs , barely any guys will commit to a girl that has a bad reputation of getting around , he might fuck her but he won’t stay committed to her , He isn’t going to give his heart to a girl that has no moral values , that can’t stay loyal and faithful , He will kick her to the curb where she belongs
It's usually playful teasing and endearing, I have three platonic girl friends I call "good girl" often, it usually makes them blush and happy.
I also have this one girl who I'm sexually interacting with, with her it's an SM thing.
So to answer your question, it depends on your level of trust and your relationship with them, you certainly shouldn't say it to someone who's not comfortable being called that.
I also know of some men who want to be seen as "The Man™" so badly, they're overcompensating and calling girls something demeaning because they think that's what they like, completely forgetting the "trust" part you need to foster over time. Since practically no one likes actually being looked down on, outside from play.
depends on tone, sometimes it means a complaint wanting intimacy you "good girl" waiting til marraige as a complaint. sometimes its respect accepting friend zone. i wouldn't say it unless she called me "thats a good boy," way we praise pets, then i could echo at her. otherwise sounds like pets.
Calling you a good girl is their way of saying they're more mature and experienced than you. Pay attention to their tone, especially to see if they're being sarcastic.
Depends on the context..” good girl “ I personally reference it to a sexual thing with my now ex. I would like to think that it’s Generally a means of someone letting you know that they think you are wholesome.
It means that you are sweet and innocent. You are often relaxed and friendly. You avoid sparking controversy. You know how to behave like an adult and easy to get along with.
I was called this by a guy and he broke my heart into a million pieces.. It just means you’re a good person, or at least that’s how he said it about me. Maybe something to do with our personality and or character, morals, etc..
You've done something that he likes/appreciates possibly at his request. Often it could be sexual like sucking him but can be non sexual like tidying up. Certainly an approving appreciation of your value to him.
It depends on the tone. Was he saying it like a joke? Then he may have been joking that you are like a dog, and praising you like one. That isn't as bad as it sounds.
If he sounded serious, it means what it means. He regards you as being high value and wants you to know that. That's as good as it sounds.
Note that with the first, it doesn't mean he disrespects you at all.
Was it a sexual context? Cause if so its obvious. Its meant as a playful sexual comment. I don't wanna like make you uncomfortable so I won't give an example. If it wasn't in sexual context and wasn't said with tone of voice implying such things. Its really hard to say. Maybe you could add some context?
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