If there was a chance for you to meet your love match but only at a certain time and place would you drop everything you were doing to get to them?

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If life for one moment in time aligned itself and the universe granted you a chance to meet the one who you truly believe is your love but it had to be at a certain time date and place giving you very little time to prepare... would you meet them or pass it up? What reasons would you pass it up for? How would you react if you were the one being passed up because the other person stalled in their decision to meet you. Could you forgive them? For me I might come close to passing it up out of fear... Just being honest. I can see fear of the unknown holding me back... But I truly believe I would push through the fear... 
 But more than likely the reason would be If something dire occurred such as an ill family member If I was passed up for no good dire reason... Well I would be hurt. I'd be mad 😡 curse the stupid universe for claiming me such a weak love match! Id say to the hell with faith life ain't no fairy tale anyways I'll make my own path and find my own true love and it certainly wouldn't be the person who snoozed.

EshaWest33 · Accepted Answer

No, I won't. Even if I'll lose him forever but I do prefer my life more than love. Love needs constant attention, validation, love is when one needs someone, feels the deficiency. Love is a deficiency of self awareness. But when love is cooperative, it doesn't needs awareness and others, it is then unification. For that kind of love, yes I'll leave all.

Azura_88 · Accepted Answer

I HAVE TO BE SURE ABOUT IT.
If he's exactly the guy I want and need then I'll even ditch my important lectures, tasks and just run away asap.
What if he's on other country or city? My parents won't let me go alone but I'll DRAG other person with me too.

Bluemax · Accepted Answer

I met her already. My wife. Unfortunately she passed away.  But I would have dropped everything to meet my wife, unless someone's life was literally in my hands (giving CPR, Heimlich maneuver, etc.)

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

It would be my sole purpose to be at that time and place.

humpbackjack · Answer

For my true love I would do whatever it took because if I love you I put you and your needs above my own I as I know she would do for me and I’ve experienced this before and today I would do anything short of putting my daughters to the side. I can tell you that this person your talking about isn’t the one for you to put yourself out for and he never will be. You’re a prize though and you’ll find your love one day

MCheetah · Answer

F*ck yes. I'd immediately quit my job (which is tied to my housing, meaning I'd also basically become homeless) if she was 100% certain to be "the one."

ZackBan · Answer

This is one of those things in life that's more important than any mundane activity.

Passing it up because I'm busy is something I would always regret because at the end of the all that we do in life is aimed at achieving our own happiness and this would be a large stop towards that

ohshee · Answer

I guess it really depends on what I had in my hands at that moment you probably some things you just don't want to drop I might set it down and I would go yes I would

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Yes I would pass it up. Why? Because I don't believe there is just one suitable woman for me in a world of 4 billion. Just one at a time.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

I don’t know, this seems REALLY weird. This is just like those times when I forget I’m alive and I think I’m watching myself from third person like in a video game, and I also forget I’m watching me. I think I’m watching someone else. I think this would kind of like, ruin my mind for some time so probably not

loves2learn · Answer

I would drop everything and make being there at that place and time my number one priority.  . Though I do think I was there. Twice. :) He remembers the first time. Good thing I went back.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

No because when you drop your priorities for someone else it implies that that appeasing that person is more important. How would he even maintain your attraction to him if he has to do what his mom wants? Sounds like you dodged a bullet to me

exitseven · Answer

I would drop everything and go. I would not even pack a bag.

Belgie · Answer

Any man that under his mother's thumb is not s man and is probably too immature to know what love is.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

He could of least handed you $70.00 for your time to come and money for gas I am sorry that guy did that to you (( Hugs ))

KennyG72 · Answer

i would be there unless something happened with my family requiring me. and i would forgive them if there were a decent reason.

Zenris9234 · Answer

I'd pass it up. I'm a terrible person, of they are my love then I would never want them to be with me. I'd want them to do better then me.

Fireguy17 · Answer

I probably would. It doesn't happen very often, so why take a chance on missing it.

K-I-S-S · Answer

Why does this guy care about his moms oppinion so much?

TallAnon · Answer

Nope. I don't think there's a specific or perfect match out there, so I would just keep doing what I'm doing.

Browneye57 · Answer

You're still living in some kind of nebulous fantasy. No wonder relationships are so hard, this is fukkin unreal.  If you don't like your online date then try another. For gods sakes.

Omario2049 · Answer

I'd be there standing on my lashes. What would I have to loose otherwise? #ShowUp

Prideful · Answer

Absolutely yes, having sky high standards (in society's eyes) if a woman like that exist I'd cross deserts, mountains and seas to get her.

DarkCarousel · Answer

Yes. Maybe. How is the match determined, I’d probably like to know.

Anonymous · Answer

been there done that. and yes i would drop everything to meet that person which i did. and i even got stood up last year when i went to see this person 3000 miles away for their birthday.

Rudon00 · Answer

Oh he'll yeah. its a once in a lifetime opportunity right?

Waldoe · Answer

I would sell my car if needed... Nothing is more important than LOVE

Omar5881 · Answer

I would take the chance pragmatically speaking love is very rare and thus very high in value I personally only know one person who experienced some sort of real love so its pretty rare

Andres77 · Answer

I met mine. So this is not hypothetical for me.

InferiorElegy · Answer

No because there is no one out there that could ever love me.

designer1 · Answer

Yes but I’m a hopeless romantic so…😂

JennBITx · Answer

I would. It is so hard to find these days

larry69 · Answer

I would. I may never get another opportunity.

Guardian45 · Answer

Yes, I would. Would you?

Wiredone · Answer

I'd be there in a flash. I'd drop everything

rebeliouse · Answer

@meetkitty123 who wouldn't!

Samantha_17 · Answer

Nope. Love is transient..!

msc545 · Answer

Maybe - if what I was doing wasn't more important.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Hell yeah I would!!!

Hadesheim · Answer

kind of idealistic but sure

Anonymous · Answer

I'm unlovable so I wouldn't go

Jesibel · Answer

In a heart beat

krin_m · Answer

Yes, I would!

Cowboy6666 · Answer

yep I would go

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Nah nope

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

nope!

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

Yes why I shudnt

Mykey13x · Answer

Yes id go for it

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