If there was a chance for you to meet your love match but only at a certain time and place would you drop everything you were doing to get to them?

[meetkitty123]

If life for one moment in time aligned itself and the universe granted you a chance to meet the one who you truly believe is your love but it had to be at a certain time date and place giving you very little time to prepare... would you meet them or pass it up?
What reasons would you pass it up for?

How would you react if you were the one being passed up because the other person stalled in their decision to meet you. Could you forgive them?

For me I might come close to passing it up out of fear... Just being honest. I can see fear of the unknown holding me back... But I truly believe I would push through the fear...
But more than likely the reason would be
If something dire occurred such as an ill family member
If I was passed up for no good dire reason... Well I would be hurt. I'd be mad 😡 curse the stupid universe for claiming me such a weak love match! Id say to the hell with faith life ain't no fairy tale anyways I'll make my own path and find my own true love and it certainly wouldn't be the person who snoozed.

Updates

+1 y

I gave a man who claimed I was his love match the opportunity to meet me. 2 hr drive for him 8hrs for me. He turned me down because his mom would question his whereabouts on that day. He offered another date at a precise time when his mom wouldn't notice. I mentioned my concerns. Id have to drive through the night to do that. His reply I don't know what to tell you. He was more concerned about what he would tell his mother.

[EshaWest33]

No, I won't. Even if I'll lose him forever but I do prefer my life more than love. Love needs constant attention, validation, love is when one needs someone, feels the deficiency. Love is a deficiency of self awareness. But when love is cooperative, it doesn't needs awareness and others, it is then unification. For that kind of love, yes I'll leave all.

[Omario2049]

And this is why I say men are the only true romantics🤦🏾‍♂️

[Azura_88]

I HAVE TO BE SURE ABOUT IT.
If he's exactly the guy I want and need then I'll even ditch my important lectures, tasks and just run away asap.
What if he's on other country or city? My parents won't let me go alone but I'll DRAG other person with me too.

[Jamie05rhs]

But here's the thing: you can never be sure. It's always a gamble. You can't be sure about anyone until you get to know them well. And at least half of that comes AFTER meeting them in person.

[Azura_88]

@Jamie05rhs true :O

[Bluemax]

I met her already. My wife. Unfortunately she passed away.

But I would have dropped everything to meet my wife, unless someone's life was literally in my hands (giving CPR, Heimlich maneuver, etc.)

[meetkitty123]

Very lovely response!

[Bluemax]

Thank you.

[meetkitty123]

@Bluemax here too

[OlderAndWiser]

It would be my sole purpose to be at that time and place.

[Azura_88]

So sweet

[humpbackjack]

For my true love I would do whatever it took because if I love you I put you and your needs above my own I as I know she would do for me and I’ve experienced this before and today I would do anything short of putting my daughters to the side. I can tell you that this person your talking about isn’t the one for you to put yourself out for and he never will be. You’re a prize though and you’ll find your love one day

[meetkitty123]

Thank you!

[MCheetah]

F*ck yes. I'd immediately quit my job (which is tied to my housing, meaning I'd also basically become homeless) if she was 100% certain to be "the one."

[meetkitty123]

Awe 😍

[ZackBan]

This is one of those things in life that's more important than any mundane activity.

Passing it up because I'm busy is something I would always regret because at the end of the all that we do in life is aimed at achieving our own happiness and this would be a large stop towards that

[ohshee]

I guess it really depends on what I had in my hands at that moment you probably some things you just don't want to drop I might set it down and I would go yes I would

[meetkitty123]

Lmao i love this reply 🤣

[Jamie05rhs]

Haha, you're funny, Ohshee.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Yes I would pass it up. Why? Because I don't believe there is just one suitable woman for me in a world of 4 billion. Just one at a time.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Now why would he be SO concerned about his mum? And more importantly, why would his mum be so concerned about you meeting him? It sounds more like he is covering up a relationship than being scared to tell his mum.

[meetkitty123]

Lol i said the same

[meetkitty123]

But no honestly he was single...
Just really obsessed about privacy when it came to his mom 🤷

[TommyMountainFigure]

I don't mean to scare you, but so was Norman Bates.

[Jamie05rhs]

Who the hell is Norman Bates?

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Jamie05rhs You never heard of 'Psycho'?'

[meetkitty123]

Hitchcock film psycho
😳😱
Lol no!
Thank goodness I can say thats not the case

[TommyMountainFigure]

That's a relief :O

[Jamie05rhs]

I have not; sorry.

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't watch scary movies. They're not my thing.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I don’t know, this seems REALLY weird. This is just like those times when I forget I’m alive and I think I’m watching myself from third person like in a video game, and I also forget I’m watching me. I think I’m watching someone else. I think this would kind of like, ruin my mind for some time so probably not

[loves2learn]

I would drop everything and make being there at that place and time my number one priority.
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Though I do think I was there. Twice. :) He remembers the first time. Good thing I went back.

[loves2learn]

Re: your update. Red flags abound! He is not your match!

[Mofunfour20]

No because when you drop your priorities for someone else it implies that that appeasing that person is more important. How would he even maintain your attraction to him if he has to do what his mom wants? Sounds like you dodged a bullet to me

[exitseven]

I would drop everything and go. I would not even pack a bag.

[meetkitty123]

Awesome

[Belgie]

Any man that under his mother's thumb is not s man and is probably too immature to know what love is.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

He could of least handed you $70.00 for your time to come and money for gas I am sorry that guy did that to you (( Hugs ))

[KennyG72]

i would be there unless something happened with my family requiring me. and i would forgive them if there were a decent reason.

[Zenris9234]

I'd pass it up. I'm a terrible person, of they are my love then I would never want them to be with me. I'd want them to do better then me.

[Fireguy17]

I probably would.
It doesn't happen very often, so why take a chance on missing it.

[K-I-S-S]

Why does this guy care about his moms oppinion so much?

[TallAnon]

Nope. I don't think there's a specific or perfect match out there, so I would just keep doing what I'm doing.

[Browneye57]

You're still living in some kind of nebulous fantasy. No wonder relationships are so hard, this is fukkin unreal.

If you don't like your online date then try another. For gods sakes.

[Omario2049]

I'd be there standing on my lashes. What would I have to loose otherwise? #ShowUp

[exitseven]

"I'd be there standing on my lashes." I love this expression. What does it mean exactly?

[Omario2049]

U know when U're super excited and your eyes are super wide open? Yeah, mine would be so wide that I could stand on my eye lashes.

[exitseven]

okay, that is very cool. Can I use it?

[Omario2049]

If u pay me royalties 🤑

[exitseven]

okay.

[Prideful]

Absolutely yes, having sky high standards (in society's eyes) if a woman like that exist I'd cross deserts, mountains and seas to get her.

[DarkCarousel]

Yes. Maybe. How is the match determined, I’d probably like to know.