Why would a 39 year old guy go for a 26 year old woman?

[Anonymous]

[DaveJord]

Off of the top of my head without knowing anything about the people involved or circumstances I could come with a few reasons. I seriously doubt that you would not be smart enough to ready know those reasons for yourself. So honestly no clue why I would need more info to even give a guess as to why other then for the obvious reasons.

[jamiexoxo]

because he's in love? It can happen... I always date younger women, they're spontaneous & exciting, they cast a spell of timelessness... as you can tell from my post i've the maturity of a 26yr old guy, so to me it seems fine, we converge on equal expectation...

But also we should point out 39 year old women also go for 26 year old guys?

[Anonymous]

Would be wrong of me to speculate but they must have a connect/like each other and to be frank isn’t anyone else’s business.

[Apple1996]

Most likely cause he can't get a woman his own age

[Avicenna]

It's easier to get a woman your age the older a guy gets. It's not easier for him to get a 26 year old girlfriend than one closer to his age.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna it is cuz young girls are stupid and will want to date a old guy cuz they can't see the red flags this guy has unlike a woman his own age

[Avicenna]

Honestly, I don't think that applies to a 26 year old, who really is an adult, and a 39 year old isn't necessarily a better judge of character than a 26 year old. And how do we know this guy doesn't have a lot going for himself? People are pickier when they are desirable partners and maybe he wants to date a woman who doesn't have kids and still has a lot of years of fertility left?

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna if he's really about to be 40 then he shouldn't be having kids. He could possibly be dead before they even graduate high-school. My parents were in their 30s when they had me and I resent them greatly for that since they were old parents. If he wanted kids then should have had them in his 20s. The old parent trend needs to go away.
And nah this guy obviously had red flags being that old and not already settled. If it's a 2nd marriage or whatever then it's fine but still people should date and marry in their own age range

[Avicenna]

Sorry, Apple, but that's hilarious. I had three kids after I turned 39, and anyone could die at any time, but average lifespan for a US male born in 1983 is much higher than 60, so while he could die before then, he probably won't.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna oof no offense but I feel extremely sorry for your childern. It's not even about death but my parents didn't care for me the same they did with my other siblings that they had in their 20s. They were actually active parents with them. This is the reason why I'm getting my tubes tied at 29. I will continue to have childern but as a surrogate.

[Avicenna]

Well, kids can't run me into the ground, so I'm not typical

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna obviously I don't know you but most older parents are shit. Never actually do anything with their kids. My in laws accidently had a baby in their 40s from a failed vasectomy. And I have watched them raise there son while I raised my kids and they really are not giving him a full life even tho they are retired and have all the time in the world to do thing with him they just don't. And it seems to be the same with other older parents I meet

[crossdressingrihno]

Because 40-year-old women aren’t as attractive as 30 year old women and 30 year old women aren’t as attractive as 20 year old women


Not everyone’s like that but there’s definitely a lot of people who are

[Subarugirl]

Next you’re gonna say that 20 year olds aren’t as attractive as 15 year olds..

[crossdressingrihno]

No actually 15 year olds a fucking ugly

[crossdressingrihno]

Actually I think i looked better when i was 15? I’m the Outlier

[20yearsolder]

The better question is why not? You're both adults. You can carry on an adult conversation. Maybe he's attracted to younger women. Maybe she's attracted to older men. It happens everyday

[jshm2]

A need to breed?

Joking aside, he's probably midlife-crisis or just finds her something different. No harm talking to him, you're not attached.

[Avicenna]

Because he finds her attractive and interesting. There is absolutely nothing unusual or controversial about that, and they are both adults.

[Subarugirl]

Because women in his own age group have the ability to see though his bull shit and refuse to put up with it, or he fetishizes girls young enough to be his daughter

[JSmuve]

Why wouldn't he? It's his choice who he goes after and if the 26 yo piques his interest then there's nothing wrong with him taking a shot with her.

[Berethor]

26 year old women tend to look better and be more fertile than 39 year old women.

[Surely]

Younger stuff and probably prettier in his eyes. Ego booster! Both are of legal age. So if it is a mistake. They are the only ones that will have to live with their decision!

[Reaper1985]

girls in there 20s often have a more youthful look and high fertility.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

He's interested in her and seems age doesn't matter to him

[FilmGuy93]

He sure as hell isn't planning to take her seriously

[TroyDT]

As long as it is consensual why would I care?

[nawtee_me]

I would so I can only speak for me but I like younger women...

[LimitedBenefits101]

why wouldn't he? women in their 30s and above age like milk and have lost their beauty.

[Nadim171]

Some people like younger people. I like older women. Nothing odd about it

[Anonymous]

Because she looks hot. That's not to say there are other women that are older that don't look hot either.

[Anonymous]

Because they are generally thinner. And less bitter than a 39 year old single woman. Maybe he wants better odds of having kids, too.

[Daniela1982]

Because she has money?

[Anonymous]

Why 45 old women want ro have sex with 25 year old men?

[BeMuse]

Why not? What is something wrong with you?