Boyfriend is NEVER single?

[Anonymous]

I started dating this guy and I have noticed a weird thing about him. He has a habit of publicising relationships all the time. Aa soon as he gets into a relationship, he starts posting and sending photos of the girlfriend and himself through WhatsApp, Facebook and Instagram. There is no such thing as privacy. He has done this with his past girlfriends and now I have noticed this with me too.

Furthermore , he has NEVER been single. He is very good looking so it's understandable that he may not have issues finding a girlfriend but each time he goes through a break up, within the next 2 months, he already has a girlfriend whom he has publicised through social media.

I'm not comfortable with such behaviour because I don't understand why he needs to constantly advertise every relationship. It just makes me feel like he constantly needs validation and he just cannot stay single. Does he have left esteem issues?

He's 29 years old.

[_Maya_]

So it bothers you that he is always in a relationship and you do what? Get into a relationship with him. Surely you knew this prior to getting into a relationship or did you not check his social media until after? If it bothers you that much that he likes to show he isn't single then break up with him. You also say he is NEVER single but then go on to say that two months later he is advertising he is in a relationship. Sounds like he is single sometimes. Maybe not for long but why do you care? That is his life and his decisions. If you aren't comfortable with it then he isn't the guy for you and move on. Simple.

[Asker]

No I mean within 2 months of the relationship he shows off that he has a girlfriend and I didn't know that he was doing this

[handsomelad70]

He's a handsome lad, and we handsome lads don't have trouble finding girlfriends if a relationship ends. Maybe you should talk to him about is penchant for sharing info about you, but boys can be quite blabby about their girls.

[Asker]

mean within 2 months of the relationship he shows off that he has a girlfriend and I didn't know that he was doing this

[Starrrboy]

So whenever he's with a girl he flaunts her and makes it official.. and that's bad? I thought women love that lol.

[Asker]

It looks ridiculous

[Starrrboy]

Lol.. it is tbh.

[boggboss]

So speak to him about it as he is now your boyfriend now

[Anonymous]

I assume he was the one that courted you and hit on you and asked you out

[spartan55]

He acts like a chick.

[Asker]

mean within 2 months of the relationship he shows off that he has a girlfriend and I didn't know that he was doing this

[handsomelad70]

How is he acting like a chick? He's acting like a DUDE, a very handsome one.

[spartan55]

Announcing every single chick he gets? He's a douche...

[KrakenAttackin]

Your boyfriend is basically a female.

[handsomelad70]

No, he's a great-looking guy, and he's behaving as such.

[KrakenAttackin]

@handsomelad70 He sounds like a "dandy", who has never had his hair mussed.

[handsomelad70]

"A "dandy" who's never had his hair mussed? OK, but what's wrong with that? (I haven't heard "dandy" very often since the mid-60's Herman's Hermits song of that name.)

[KrakenAttackin]

@handsomelad70 Excellent Sir! Herman Goering was exactly who came to mind in his self-appointed baby blue uniforms. Ha! Well done.

[handsomelad70]

Herman Goering might have worn baby blue uniforms, but he was an ugly, three-chinned slob. Thanks for the compliment, though. (Reinhard Heydrich was supposedly handsome, however.)

[KrakenAttackin]

@handsomelad70 I agree with you 💯.

I just think of vanity being more of a female trait than a man's trait.

[handsomelad70]

Really? Some dudes spend more time primping in the bathroom than a lot of women. (Plus if you're an NFL fan, have you ever heard of "diva wide receivers?")

[KrakenAttackin]

@handsomelad70 Yeah, that's a feminine trait.

[handsomelad70]

Like a lot of handsome lads, I LOVE looking at myself in the mirror.

[KrakenAttackin]

@handsomelad70 🪞🪞🪞🪞Here are few mirrors so you can get your fix 😉

[handsomelad70]

Thanks, bud !!!

[Anonymous]

U are absolutely right

[handsomelad70]

Oh, boy...

[handsomelad70]

Watch him closely for signs he's ready to leave you for his next relationship.

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆