Why does he act single if he is in a relationship?

[Gucci6968]

Why does he act single so his Facebook has nothing of use on it after a year and a half together he never say anything about me on Facebook it like I do not exist 😢

[DaveJord]

First off never, I mean never, fixate or read too much into anything social media related, when it comes to dating and relationships. Honestly, this is why I stay off social media all together other then here.

I dated women for a year or more and always asked them to not post or share anything with me on social media. I only have a fakebook account for family and I never if ever post anything on it. Seriously the last time I posted on Facebook was June 2021 and that was to change my profile picture to not include my ex-wife.

And yes, I tell women that the reason I do this because I don't want ex-girlfriends or even potential future girlfriends stalking me through social media trying to dig up old dirt from past failed relationships. I also tell them that my ex-wife is a Facebook stalker and I that they should be advised. Heck my most current ex-friend I never even friended on a singled social, and she didn't want me to because she didn't want any issues with my ex-wife. But then again I don't do social media just because this issue here you are talking about and because I know my ex-wife has issues.

Now I understand what you are saying I get it, because on some level you have a point. But your 24 now, its not highschool any more so you have to approach this as an adult. Some people have history and they don't want you going through their pictures or being tagged in photos by ex-girl friends and then having everyone seeing it and letting it get twisted up. I mean I understand you have been dating this guy for a year, or so, or more. But as you get older, and into your professional and personal lives you don't want your life's story on social media. Insecure women will always think it because your trying to hide something or cheating, and confident women will not care either way. Bottom line for me is that I just don't want it on my socials until I feel safe about doing it myself. If she is the right women for me then she will accept and understand that.

With all that said, I was married for 22 years, and my ex-wife would post pictures of herself with the kids and never even tag me in them. That annoyed the living crap out of me, she would never post pictures of me or tag me... unless I really complained about it. But we were in a 22 year marriage, and come to find out she was cheating me several times. But ultimately I was glad that she was not posting pictures of me at the same time she was banging some other guy... that would of been worse. So if you trust him, then trust him. But at some point you will have to decide for yourself when enough is enough. But as long as you can see his accounts, then demanding he post about you is not your place.

[JPresidente]

Could be because he's a player or he's keeping his options open.