If a guy avoids you after cutting contact does that mean he has feelings?

[LostandFound__x]

Like doesn’t go to places he knows he will see me. And he didn’t really give me a real reason for cutting contact.

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I’m asking this on the basis of him not wanting to see me because it might make him go back on his decision of cutting contact. YA SEEE where I’m getting at lol

[Mr_twoface]

I would say it doesn't necessarily mean he has feelings for you and there could be various reasons for his behavior. For instance, he might be avoiding you to cope with his emotions. If the relationship or interaction was intense or significant, he might need space to process his feelings. Also avoidance might be his way of making it easier to let go, especially if he feels that continued interaction could reignite emotions that he's trying to manage or overcome. Since he was the one who decided to cut contact, he might be avoiding you out of respect for boundaries, either yours or for his own sake. Alternatively, his avoidance could indicate a lack of interest in maintaining a relationship or even a friendship, reflecting a decision to focus his attention elsewhere.

[LostandFound__x]

Yes he definitely doesn’t want to speak to me he told me he doesn’t 🙂

[Mr_twoface]

Well, his loss. Move on finding a true gentlemen!

[LostandFound__x]

Thanks

[blueonblack22]

@LostandFound__x you know the right answer on this. There are only two reasons he would do something like this:

• You rejected him (friendzone style) and he wants nothing to do with you. Which is smart.
• You did and/or said something that really hurt him.

I am going with more of the first point. Women often reject men and then magically expect the man to be all happy and okay with it and still “friends”. Men need to accept rejection with grace but women got to naively (and selfishly) got to quit expecting men to be okay with friendzone vs.

[blueonblack22]

Follow me back

[LostandFound__x]

I think I hurt him tbh. He was very very into me and then something happened and he cut contact. I apologised but he refused to go back.

[ManOnFire]

Unfortunately I would say no. If he's the one who cut contact and is avoiding you, it's most likely because he doesn't want things to be awkward, or doesn't want you to get the idea that there could still be some kind of door open by continuing to be in your orbit.

I think if he still had feelings even though he cut contact, he would start trying to make himself be seen coincidentally, or even try to 'bump' into you somewhere, as a way to get you guys to start talking again.

[ManOnFire]

@LostandFound__x Mmmmm... I don't necessarily think him trying to avoid you would be because he doesn't want to go back on his word.

If you were the one who cut things off and was avoiding all the places you guys would see each other at, why would you do it? Would you be avoiding them because it would be awkward? Or do you think he's avoiding them to keep from going back on his word because maybe that's something YOU would do?

I'm sure the whole thing is very sad and disheartening for you, and I really do understand that, but I think you’re maybe reading just a little too much into it.

[LostandFound__x]

Thanks for your kind words 🥲

[Billlewis]

Either that or he doesn't want to be teased;)

[LostandFound__x]

Teased? Lol

[Billlewis]

I'm sure you can understand that;)

[KostasKouvalis]

I would imagine it's quite the opposite actually. If it was on bad terms, I'd want to avoid them at all cost. But if he has feelings I would imagine that he would be persistent

[LostandFound__x]

I don't know man he cut me off and I can’t accept it 😭

[KostasKouvalis]

Who was it?

[LostandFound__x]

The last guy I told you about 🥲

[ravagesavage]

"Does that mean he has feelings?" That's wild lmao! Quite a conclusion to come to 😂

[LostandFound__x]

Ok mock my heartbreak go on

[ravagesavage]

I'm not mocking, I just think the Idea of you thinking he's holding on to his feelings for you is funny. Yeah he prob has some still but it's all being scrubbed away, otherwise he would still be interested in your life somewhat. Can't cut out feelings like that right away.

[LostandFound__x]

When he cut me off he said he liked me but had to end things whatever that means

[ravagesavage]

Damn and you didn't think to include that little CONTEXT? Well means he's moving on since he pretty much sharpened his resolve to end the relationship like that. Keyword "Liked" past tense

[LostandFound__x]

Well he said he likes me I don't know man 😭 I can’t seem to accept it

[ravagesavage]

There's a lot of things I don't like accepting but I always have to move on otherwise it'll start eating me up inside and get me depressed. Gotta be more optimistic, not delusional, but realize there's more people out there who're better instead of letting it revolve around one person who you felt happy with and loved. But for the meantime focus on yourself until you run into somebody and do the things that you enjoy that'll help you move on.

[LostandFound__x]

🥲🥲🥲🥲 ok sir

[Starrrboy]

Yeah he still has feelings but trying to suppress it and move on..

[ProbablyClueless]

No, it doesn't sound like he has feelings. It sounds like he just wants to avoid having an awkward interaction with you.

[GawkVoidArisen]

I think it sounds like it is probably the opposite?

[avery58]

Not necessarily

[The_Sexpert]

Shouldn't that mean the opposite?

[The_Sexpert]

To be honest

[Abdulwahh]

Maybe it's really hard to tell.

[Abdulwahh]

Well if I like a girl I'm gonna be where she is converse with her and if things goes smooth probably give her a nice kiss for the day.

[LostandFound__x]

Sigh

[Abdulwahh]

How long do you expect a guy to take before he proposes?

[LostandFound__x]

It depends on how the relationship is going lol but I’d like him to say what his intentions are pretty early on

[Abdulwahh]

I see quick is better.

[In_Trance]

No it means he's moving on

[Tstrbrainer]

Context

[Tstrbrainer]

Why did he cut contact with you?

[LostandFound__x]

I actually don’t know. We had a disagreement and he freaked out

[Tstrbrainer]

What if he were in those places in the first place only to see you?
So now there's no point for him to visit them anymore?

[LostandFound__x]

I don’t think so because that’s where we met

[Tstrbrainer]

Did you like him?

[LostandFound__x]

Yes a lot.

[Tstrbrainer]

What was the disagreement about?

[LostandFound__x]

Shall I just message you lol

[Anonymous]

No. It means YOU'RE a stalker.😆

[LostandFound__x]

We met at the gym and we’ve both been going for years. He stopped coming.

[eagle1951]

NOPE