Is chaterbate cheating? My boyfriend does this several Times per day even while we were getting busy he was sneaking his phone.. he keeps denying it?

[Dez01]

Is this considered normal? I feel betrayed

[RebelinSteel]

Several times a day in a relationship and denying it is wrong. Relationships are built on trust and respect. You both need to have a sit down adult conversation, explain what your limits and boundaries are with porn etc, let him have his say and then agree mutual ground, something what works for both.

if he won’t agree or you won’t budge, then you both need to end the relationship.

[Anonymous]

Did he actually fuck any of those girls? If not, he's not cheating!
Have you tried fucking him a lot more? Some people have a very high sex drive and need it several times a day! If they aren't getting it, guess where they're GONNA get it?

[Dez01]

I get the high sex drive for sure. If his sex drive is so high and sexual urges are often then why would chaterbate... a platform that engages in actual girls on their on private Webcam be needed at all? Or even porn for that matter... and my sex drive is above norm too, and he doesn't come to me once or even.. THINK... bout me. We could have a pretty exciting sex life but he chooses to go somewhere else and engages with his favorite ho everyday. It's just pathetic to me when u realize there is actually More attention given away to strange nasty women then choosing to water our garden... just sayin... does that not seem bit off?

[Opinion Owner]

Have you ever sat and discussed it with him?

[Dez01]

Yes he Denys it... Completely.. mkea me feel like I just a nag or crazy

[Opinion Owner]

Have yo tried hanging around the house completely naked and being very suggestive towards him. Maybe walk up to him and tell him you want him to fuck you.
Next time you expect him to come home, get naked, lie in bed with your legs spread wide open and see what he does.
How about getting some of the toys those girls play with and pretend to be them when he comes into the room?
If he still won't fuck you, I think it's time to get somebody else that will!

[avery58]

What's chaterbate? Is it like webcam girls? If so, YES. That's cheating in my opinion

[DrPepper12]

It's not cheating but HOLY HELL THATS FUCKED UP!! He has the real thing in front of him and he goes THERE? Sista, it ain't normal 🚩🚩🚩

[nawtee_me]

Even when he is with you he is masturbating or watching girls masturbate? You need to get rid of him fast….

[ChicoFromThe305]

What's chaterbate? Is it what I think it is?

[Dez01]

Exactly what u probs think.. like Facebook but no feeds just live cams and messaging and adding each other

[ChicoFromThe305]

If it's what I'm thinking then yes it's cheating

[Anonymous]

Is he tipping the girl, then talking to her then yes does he take her into private?

[Dez01]

Probs not tipping lol... but I jve seen him when he look like he's bit hot and heavy with hi ohine and messaging.. watching something with hi phone... in front of me
I'm pretty faithful so I guess my expectations are making me feel hurt. I just feel he sould be.. want to out some of that attention and ambition.. into his own life.. not give it all away... for some ho online...

[Opinion Owner]

Talk to him about it make the rules

[cootjuhh]

i would mastubate for you if i was him. he have a cute looking woman

[SamZy16]

Is he looking at girls? Or is he on cam himself?

[Dez01]

I don't think so... tried to find him and couldn't.. so I got the eff outta there lol

[SamZy16]

Lol okay. Either it seems he's not able to be himself completely with you or he's just crazy about women you know. Like wants more iykyk

[OddBeMe]

Even during sex? That’s fucked up.

[jahaims]

That depends on your personal boundaries

[war_daddy]

welcome to dating in your late 30s as a woman

[Anonymous]

Yes.