Boyfriend cheating online?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend of 3 years has been messaging a woman online and asking for naked photos and videos. He calls me neurotic but i have seen the messages. He deletes them also. He even told her when im at work so she can message him then. He mainly does this when drunk but has messaged her back other times. Is it cheating and what would you do? I love him so do not know what to do.

[RemoErdosain]

Yeah, I consider this cheating, and if he's capable of doing that, don't doubt for a moment that he would also physically cheat on you. Time to break up. He's a liar and a cheater

[Asker]

sadly i think he would too :/

[RemoErdosain]

Yeah, he totally would, that's a given

[RemoErdosain]

Maybe even has already. Where's that woman from?

[Asker]

He told this woman we are bros yet tells me he loves me😒

[Asker]

he doesn't leave the house. Its all online. But if he had a chance and not found out i think he would

[RemoErdosain]

Where is she from? And wow, that's super shady. Maybe you should message her yourself and tell her.

[ItsTheNephilim]

It's cheating if you feel cheated. Either stay okay with it or break up with him; your call.

[reptocarl2]

Of course it’s cheating and nothing you can do. You have a decision

[Asker]

I know maybe but he lives with me. I keep wondering if he knows what he's doin and questioning now if he loves me

[reptocarl2]

Of course he knows and no he doesn’t. You already know these answers. Love is an action not a word

[Asker]

I know. He has asked her for photos while i am at work

[reptocarl2]

You can stay knowing it will never change or leave. That’s the only two choices you have

[Asker]

A big decisioni know. I just want to go numb so i can't feel nothin

[reptocarl2]

I’m sorry

[TheFlak38]

you're just jealous that better women steal the attention from you.

[Asker]

I wouldn't call a woman who messages a bloke knowin he is with someone a better woman

[Emanon_18]

Ignore him in everything for a week

[Asker]

He lives with me so its hard

[Emanon_18]

No it’s not, if you keep soft to him he will never change

[Asker]

I know 😑

[Emanon_18]

You got to try, I know how hard to you, but little pain now is much better than bigger pain later on

[justme1218]

Yes it's cheating