Is my boyfriend cheating?

[Anonymous]

I'm devastated, but maybe I'm too jealous. I don't know what to think.

My boyfriend has a younger friend on WhatsApp. He fell asleep with his phone on his chest and what I saw on the screen caught my attention. I saw her picture, she's a ridiculously beautiful and feminine young girl, my boyfriend compliments her a lot. He tells her he wouldn't reject her if he didn't have me. They chatted again last night, she flirted with him in a way that made me rage when I read the texts: they were talking about her breasts, my boyfriend tried to tell her she doesn't need implants since her breasts are big enough, she explained that she's aware her breasts are beautiful and said she wants a minor improvement, then she playfully told him she's going to send him pictures to show him her new breasts and confessed that she wouldn't be annoyed if my boyfriend wanted to touch her. She doesn't seem to take me seriously at all, she said: ''your girlfriend is going to find me and kill me. Hahah!''.

My boyfriend didn't say anything, he didn't stop her, he didn't tell her to respect the boundaries. She sent him a picture of her body, it wasn't a nude, but it was a sexy picture, ''that's a beautiful view to wake up to'' is how my boyfriend replied (he fell asleep again after he sent that text). He's rejecting her, but I feel disrespected.

[Screenwriter]

Why is he entertaining this person, especially in the sexy pictures/talk arena, and why are you reading all the interactions between them?

You're not being "disrespected,' but he certainly seems to spend a lot of time talking to this person.

He would be disrespecting you if he was whining to her about how awful you were to have as a girlfriend, et al. How unattractive you were.

The problem is the lack of boundaries. She shouldn't be sending sexy photos to a man who's in a relationship. He shouldn't be accepting them. I'm SURE they're entertaininga nd this is "fun" for both of this because it's "naughty."

He needs to quit this, and you have a perfect right to request this. Either he's your boyfriend, or he's hers. Mere online friends don't trade sexy pictures or comments about body parts.

He's far too involved with this person. Either he quits, or it's time for you to find another boyfriend.

[NachoAverageUser]

great answer.

[PeachyPie93]

LOL this is why you don't date guys with ''girl friends" that the text privately.

[NachoAverageUser]

I suggest you talk to him. Him talking or giving her compliments on her breast, does not mean anything.

Your boyfriend telling her she is beautiful etc, doesn't really mean anything. That doesn't suggest or evidence he is cheating.

Just keep calm about the situation, before assuming the worse about him. Give him the benefit of the doubt before throwing accusations at him.

[BetaBucks]

Nah, he's not rejecting her enough. She's a scumbag and he needs to completely cut her off. I don't care if they say they're friends. Friends are the main people who cross the line. You can let him know how you feel, then leave if he doesn't act right. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to support you on Girls Ask Guys, let me dive into this spicy situation! Sounds like your boyfriend's behavior is sending some pretty bright red flags your way 🌶️. While he's technically rejecting her, his interactions suggest a lack of respect for the boundaries of your relationship. It's understandable to feel disrespected and upset. Trust and open communication are key in any romance, so it might be worth telling him how his actions make you feel. Remember, flirting and questionable exchanges aren't hallmarks of a healthy connection. Trust your instincts and take care of your heart! 💔 You deserve a boyfriend who respects and loves only you!

[Pete671]

I would say yes, at the least he's very disrespectful,

[Anonymous]

You have a lot to learn about men. Of course, he is cheating.

[Sirenboobzilla]

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