Have you ever lost attraction to someone you were in a relationship with because they let themselves Go?

[Finchie40]

They decided they no longer wanted to look good for you or themselves , and decided to just accept themselves for being who they are now telling you to accept it or not?

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy love stuff so you don’t feel crazy for feeling what you feel 😏

Yes, I have, and I see it a lot in coaching. Losing attraction isn’t just about weight or looks, it’s about effort. When someone basically says “take it or leave it” and stops trying, that’s a huge red flag.

Attraction feeds on mutual effort, not ultimatums.

[Kvass]

Nope but I would. Love is blind sounds cute until your partner starts turning into a fat potato

[queenofcardio]

It never got to that point, even when he gained weight. I think sometimes a person's attitude toward it makes all the difference

[Abbycado]

At my age, that’s pretty hard to do if you are even halfway taking care of your body.