The pain caused by my ex's choice to end our romantic relationship by cutting off all contact and ignoring my attempts to reach out was brutal. I felt like I never meant anything to him. Those are the kind of thoughts a person can dwell on after being ghosted. It can scar a person and make them guarded in future relationships or even closed off to future relationships. I knew these thoughts weren’t doing me any good or leading me on a path to healing, so I tried to look at in simple terms: Some people are just assholes!
Guys, how much do you think about the pain it will cause her when you decide to ghost her?
How many of you chose ghosting because you didn’t want to think about or acknowledge the pain it would cause her? You ghosted to avoid dealing with this question or any hard questions that would make you feel worse when confronted?