He wanted sex or likes me?

[Anonymous]

I met a guy 3 weeks ago and we ve texting non stop. He's come over to my house and we ve slept together as well.
He asked me to go with him to one week vacation with him and I went with him. We had a lot of sex there and it was fun.

After we returned, we texted a lot for a week and met up a few times for lunches and dinners.
However, now he's pulling away and cancelling date plans.
However he still texts me past midnight that he wants to see me.

Why do this?

[MrCommodore]

He likes you for sex only, he still messages you as he wants to keep his options open, but he pulling away and cancelling date plans as he got what he wants and he knows you're likely hooked on him at this point. He doesn't need to be as attentive, he is probably texting other girls now too.

[Asker]

Why ask me for holiday?

[MrCommodore]

Because the sex was new and exciting for him, and he wanted to a break away somewhere quiet to have lots of sex to fulfill his desires/needs.

He is likely a player type, he is charming and enjoys the early stages of chasing a girl, the initial sex etc, then starts to distance himself from the girl and move to look for the next girl to chase.

[Asker]

So if a girl won't sleep with him and his charms won't work on her, will he fall for her? Because I do know he has someone who has rejected hook ups with him and 8 months later, he's still kept her number and chats with her in person,

[MrCommodore]

No, I think guys like that never can fall in love with any one girl. He will always need the excitement of chasing a new girl. He might eventually settle down in his 30's, but it depends.

[Asker]

But why has he kept the girls number who rejected chasing him and hooking up with him?

[MrCommodore]

Because she is a challenge.

[Asker]

But he doesn't like her right? He's always looking so annoyed and bitter with her and yet he won't cut her off even though he's sleeping with me?

[MrCommodore]

Yeah he most likely doesn't like her

[Asker]

Yes so why is she still kept in his contacts? He said get rid of her?

[MrCommodore]

Because as I said, he views her as a challenge, one girl he hasn't managed to have sex with. He keeps her in his contacts, as he hopes to still charm her in future at some point.

[Asker]

But he can tell the difference? She hasn't been charmed by him nor does she chase him. He isn't interested so he makes no effort either. So what's the point?

[Iron_Man]

Huge mistake given it up this happens all the time they get what they want and they disappear

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Iron_Man]

Sometimes A man hunts and pursues a girl for sex and then when they get what they want when they’re satisfied they split the man’s not seriously doesn’t wanna serious relationship he just wants sex

[Asker]

Then why still texting me and coming to see me on dates?

[Iron_Man]

He just told me he’s been canceling he’s probably on his way out

[Iron_Man]

Voice command error I mean you just said

[Asker]

Yes but he's still texting and coming

[Iron_Man]

Then why did you say that he’s canceling and coming for what sex

[Asker]

But he is. Not like hefore

[Iron_Man]

Keep a close eye out on him

[Anonymous]

That’s called Post-Nut Syndrome dear. If he continues texting back, he just needs space to get back on track.

[spartan55]

Because he doesn't want to date you, just fuck

[Asker]

Then why is he texting me or going to meet me?

[spartan55]

You said he is pulling away and canceling plans... so what do you mean?

[Asker]

He's still coming to meet me but not like he used to

[spartan55]

There you go, it won't all happen at once.

[spartan55]

"however he still texts past midnight"... hmm you don't say?

[spartan55]

Alter ego #2... so you are pretending to have sex with him today. Awesome.

[Guy13]

Yep got what he wanted.

[Guy13]

Body Count Increase

[Anonymous]

Slowly getting bored from you..

[Asker]

Whh6 text me do much then?