Does he want me?

Ok so I have a good mate who is also mates with a family member, the. past 4 years we've been friends with benefits, he's had girlfriends in-between, (we never did while he was with someone) he's usually a player, as in leaves early morning and goes lol but with me, we always end up in bed when he's single, he stays till mid morning, we literally have the funniest time together, same personally, totally get on amazing, he knows how I feel, but he's always got a type, ie blonde, thin, lashes etc etc, I'm not at all fake like that! But they never last longer than 6 mths as they always turn into physco on him, always come with 2. or 3 young kids and he can't cope, messaging me, and when they split were together. Evey time he is with my family member I'm topic of conversation, he's always talking about me and God forbid if anyone ever hurt me! He always comes out with snide comments about guys, wants to know who I've been with and when we get together for drinks with his latest girl, it's like she's an outsider as we're just talking and he always sits with me, full eye contact and pissing about on karaoke, his girlfriend are always sat watching pretending there not jealous So. whats his deal? Is it a materialistic thing that he needs a trophy on his arm? I'm a size16 and bit older But every time he's with someone he still instigates things we've done together, obviously I would never go with a taken man regardless of the fact we've been on and off 4 years. He hates it when I'm friends with guys and always says things like "why don't you get... round" I'm like wtf šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø we are so alike, I could ring him if I needed help asap and he would be there! He's a one night stand fuck them off next day kinda guy when he's single, but with me, we literally joke and laugh constantly in. bed. he's confusing the fuck out of me šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø help lol

Does he want me?
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