Does he really not want me?

[Anonymous]

so me and my boyfriend had ben dating for about a year and then we broke up. we’ve been broken up just over two months now. after we broke up there was some things that came out about our relationship. it’s never been confirmed but apparently he was texting other girls in our relationship. he recently popped up on my phone the other day but did not message me. i got my hopes up thinking maybe it’s an apology or something of that type. my friends tell me he chose the girl he was texting in our relationship. that he wants her and the only reason he would be texting me is to ask me to hook up. and that he doesn’t want me he wants her. we haven’t spoken at all since the break up but i don’t know what to think.

[Changiis07]

How did he pop up on your phone? Like was it a pic.. and honestly the fact that he was texting other women is a red flag. You don't do that to someone you care about so it's best to move on. If there's any hope then it would have to be from him to apologize and all but if he hasn't don't wait around

[Espresso-Grande]

I'd say he didn't want you based on his actions

Even if he had changed his mind and decided that it's you he wants, would you really want him back?

[LazerBean]

Your friends are absolutely right.