If he doesn't want me then why is he saying all this?

[Anonymous]

So today my ex tried calling me few times
After 6 months of no contact :/

I picked up on the last call

He was saying:

- I took his happiness away from him
- he's in trauma because of me
- he can't sleep properly these past months because he wakes up to the pain I caused him
- he will show me that he will be better than me and that i will wish i had someone like him next to me
- he doesn't want me
- he needed me in his life to show him love doesn't exist
Bla blahhh...

didn't let me talk and just hanged up on me

by the way.. I left him because it was toxic

If he doesn't want me, then why is he saying all this?

He deep down still wants you

He really doesn't want you

[Changiis07]

Whatever the case may have been if he is toxic it's good that it ended. Don't even question it girl! don't pick up his calls anymore goodbye and good riddance

[Asker]

Yea true
But what did he mean by i took his happiness?

[Changiis07]

the relationship was toxic so he wasn't happy and is blaming you for it, it's like he just wants to throw things at your face/blame you for it

[Asker]

But doesn't that mean he hasn't moved on?

[Changiis07]

True but it sounds like he is have you moved on?

[Asker]

If he's moved on then why is he contacting me?
And how come he tried calling me again twice after that call?

[Changiis07]

oh that I don't know maybe a part of him does miss you. That's hard to tell to be honest

[virtual_girl]

Classic narcissist behaviour. Also sounds like a beta. This is how a toxic female behaviours, not a man. I am going to take a stab in the dark here and assume he was raised in a single mother and no dad household.

[Guy13]

This is a blessing in disguise. Good ridden and that probably was his last act unless he really wants to mess with your head by controlling your emotions. This is a toxice man.

[Asker]

If it was his last act.. how come he tried calling me again twice after that call?

[Anonymous]

he's hurt!!