Polls: Break Up & Divorce

I'll just leave this here.

This is similar to Was this parent an asshole for destroying son's Minecraft world for waking up late?

Me and my ex where together for 7 years was a perfect relationship but when our son was born our relationship started to crumble , we stopped having sex and we fought a lot. Our baby wasn’t planned and he had planned on going traveling before I found out.

He ended things with me and I was devastated It’s been 10 months. And since the Corona I was kinda hoping he would change his mind and want to get back together.

I found out today through a friend that he started seeing a girl the last few weeks and apparently he is really into her. She broke up with him because he had a little baggage but since then they got back together.’ Apparently this girl is everything I’m not, 4 years older, fully career driven and has no kids. The reason he hasn’t told me about her is he wants me to move on before he breaks the news. I can’t say anything either our friend asked me not too.

I feel like this girl is getting in the way of me putting my family back together. I feel my ex should do what’s best for our son. I kind of feel that I should get in contact with this girl and tell her she is breaking up a family. I am just so hurt.

His ex and I had our babies three months apart. His ex was pregnant by another man while I was pregnant by him. Her and I talked and I found out he was begging to get back with her while she was pregnant by another man and I was pregnant by him. He also wanted the baby in the beginning and begged me not to get an abortion but now says I tried trapping him and he wishes he didn't get me pregnant. I can't help but to feel used and really low about myself. I have no confidence and wonder what I did to deserve this. If he didn't want me and wanted his ex I could've got the abortion and moved on and found a man who would appreciate me.

Just say you broke up with your ex boyfriend, would you immediately message other men after a break up?
Some attractive men , whether random or mutual friend.. etc
E. g. on facebook, instagram, snapchat, etc?

Just say you broke up with your ex girlfriend, would you immediately message other women after a break up?
Some attractive women , whether random or mutual friend.. etc
E. g. on facebook, instagram, snapchat, etc?

He cheated on a great girlfriend (in Sept of last year) and things haven't been the same since. He admitted she was the best girl ever but he still cheated.

She was both a store manager and great cook. Many times she would go out of her way to prepare one of the many dishes and desserts the same way his late grandmother used to make. She ate whatever he wanted.

He regrets ever cheating. Things aren't the same. They don't speak every day, she locks herself in her room sometimes and only prepares food for herself, what she likes. She isn't baking anything anymore, is distant and doesn't say ''I love you'' anymore. He wishes things were back to normal again, that he'll do anything and work hard to gain back her love and trust. Or should he break up now? Their relationship looks almost dead by now.

I didn't tell him that I had a teenager son from a previous relationship. I was a teen mom and the situation wasn't really my fault for why my child was taken from me when I was a teen. Him and I was dating for awhile and I got pregnant by him and eventually I was going to tell him I already had a child. But the day I was giving birth to our child the doctor said "oh I see this is your second c section, how old is your first child" and that's how he found out. Since then he's been mad at me but before this he was already mad and abusing me for no reason.