What does it mean when a guy says " I want to be yours"?

[Anonymous]

He'a a great guy and everything but finds it hard to express his feelings verbally. When we're having sex is when he tells me how he feels.
Last time we were together he said "I want to be yours"
What does it mean?

[FemWorship]

Guy emotions and feelings this should never end peak when both his brains are in heaven = sex
and in that moment only he sincerely states feelings that he means!
Thereafter, the truth of the moment can change.

Note that "be yours" more strongly suggests you take care of him and his sexual needs (as you are doing during sex) than to put it "be mine"

[Red-Pill-Truth]

If he only expresses emotion after getting off, be wary.
Sex and orgasm releases a variety of hormones in the brain, that makes him feel good (and sleepy), so he's expressing what he's feeling at that very moment.

This is why sex should never be a catalyst for anything long term.
(And why it actually isn't)

[Asker]

I agree. He has said things when weren't in bed too so I'm starting to get what he feels. I'm the same way actually. I find it easier to say how I feel during sex.

[SarahsSummer]

Not to sound harsh but, Seriously? Isn't that obvious? he. Wants. To. Be. Your. Boyfriend.

[coachTanthony]

He want's to be boyfriend and girlfriend. He wants to catch you in a butterfly net. LOL

[kkoll]

He could also be with other women and he doesn’t know who to be with. It’s just a guess of mine of course. Some times people tend to hit you with riddles don’t they. He wants to be yours somehow strikes me as a bit suspicious. I mean, he is already with you so why would he say that in the first place to you? Who knows?

[Asker]

I find him saying that a bit suspicious too.
On the other hand, if he were with other women, why would he say what he told me?

[kkoll]

Quote: I want to be with you, but I haven’t made my mind up about sally down the road or jill up the hill…. Just tell him when he tells you again that you want to be with him. And if he goes to say something but then suddenly stops, then the chances are he wants to confess something/or someone to you. Learn to use a little bit of tactics with him. Because if he is trying to out-mind you, then you need to learn how to counter it. And if it comes to this anyway, personally, I would just send him packing and move onto someone who ain’t going to ask you insecure questions. Maybe anyway… I await your responses. Lets see if we can fix this for you both.

[kkoll]

Somethings we have to deal with aren’t always black and white are they? This is the reason you’re here asking aren’t you of course…. And we have to read between the lines when someone says something completely strange, it always raises flags in your mind. It appears to be non-normal behaviour from them. Fucking strange if you ask me. Whats wrong with just enjoying each others company for a while (I say. For a while just to make the point nothing is etched in rock for you, just as well hey?) it don’t have to become permanent, and especially if it is screwing with your mind too much, that’s the tell-tale sign to just back down and seek someone fresh who doesn’t pose riddles. You know, we all just want to have fun with someone and get our rocks off, but when they start to get the philosophical bag out then its time to run like hell for the nearest door, kicking it down on the way through.

[kkoll]

I mean: “I want to be yours” lets just tear that down for a minute. Firstly, if we flip it over, it would say I want you to be mine. Its sounds a bit possessive don’t you agree? I mean, it seems quite a lot to ask even though it is only a few words. Like: “Your mine!”. And it could be this what he is trying to get through to you. It could be an invitation if you know what I mean. I want to be yours will you be mine? Maybe…. If you was to word it with more venom rather than how he has put it…then you might not be curious to his intentions. Personally I would have put my hand on your face, looked deeply into your eyes, and said: We need to really think this through. Because I am starting to fall for you and I don’t really know how to take it> then I would hand it over to you then. And watch you to see how you react to this invitation. Then I would start to move away from you and hope that you advance on me. For if you did, then we have got something going then, for real…

[kkoll]

From a man’s point of view, the key to it is not to get in too close to you at first. I would hand the wheel to you. Let you do the driving so to speak. And then if you are happy to do that then I would simply take over once and a while otherwise you will become tired and bored. It’s a two-way street isn’t it? Love. For it to work you both really do have to dig deep and pull out all the tricks. If you go into it half-cocked if you don’t mind me saying this: then it won’t work, it will all just become boring and tasteless I think. The key to it all is to just keep it plain and simple, not to hit you with riddles and a lot of guess work on your part. Boy oh boy…what a strange thing love can be! But in the end, it’s all worth the journey.

[03FreeBird14]

I think but I am not sure that maybe he wants you to be his permanent girlfriend and never let go of you coz he might trust you and believe that you have something good or great that will compliment you two as being a couple

[Dinotracks]

It just means he wants to have sex with you again.

That's it.

[Asker]

We've been having sex for a while. He doesn't have to say anything since it's a given that we will.

[Dinotracks]

It might mean to you that he wants to marry you. But marriage is only important to the woman in terms of what she's getting. To him he wants a guarantee that sex will come regularly into the future. So it means he wants sex.

[America1st]

Based on what you said, I'd take the words literally. He wants to be your guy and wants you to be his lady.

[Ram0n83]

Going on the face value of the statement alone, he wants a committed relationship with you.

[OnisT]

you said he finds it hard to express his feelings verbally. how else is he expressing his feelings

[Karanveer]

it takes courage to say that, even when entwined in bed. I think the guy loves u deeply

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/VwNYnJXYOco

[Dale1982]

Do you really need that explained. There's no hidden meaning behind everything. It usually means how it sounds

[naraku]

what do you think it means? He told you EXACTLY what he wants !

[fsu19]

Ikr I hate questions like these

[ghosttownshutin]

He wants to be your only lover (and probably vice versa).

[Pizzalover101]

Wants you to be long term girl friend or sees being your husband in future

[cutemz]

Wants to be your boyfriend

[DetourRte66]

he was quoting a song by Prince

[LastNightmare]

sex with you all the time

[Gray_Wolf]

He sounds someone submissive.