My girlfriend went for a prom night date with one of her classmate, what should I do?

[chb321]

My girlfriend said that she will be going to a prom date with one of her male batchmates and she went there. I did not thought much about this because at first because I thought it will be ok if she goes with her classmate but now I feel guilty that why did I allow her. I have never went to a prom date, so I don't have much idea about. Can you tell me what things happens in a prom night? Do they kiss each other or have sex as I don't know much about it? I feel jealous now thinking about her with another boy going for a prom. What should I do?

[PavlovsCogk]

You see, a prom night is kinda like a massiveslumber party, only with $600 dresses and sordid undercurrents of raw, pulsating libido. So it's basically like every episode of 'Fear Factor' mix-banged with 'Fifty Shades of Grey' while being narrated by Mae West.

Think of it like this, when they slow dance, it's actually acollective orgasmic ritual practiced to evoke the primordial lust buried deep within the subconscious. The way their palpitating hearts collide in the rhythmic dance, it's not just an innocent expression of joy, but sultry serenades of desire unleashed, waiting to devour their innocence with forbidden pleasures.

At the dinner, they don't eat, they feast on lustful glances, dripping with libidinal currency invented by @MrTouchyFeely. The secret meet-ups are calculated moves, carefully planned illicit adventures, stringing question marks and exclamation points in a sinuous ballet of scandal and temptation. When they talk, it's a sexy symphony of hushed whispers, entangled in compulsive secrets, brimming with erotic connotations.

Conversations aren't about academics or future plans, they are psychedelic tales of sultry inclinations, whispered promises of carnal pleasures, innuendos on an endless loop, laced with steamy promise sparks and quivers of scandal.

And yeah, about the car ride. Oh, don't even get me started! It's like divorce court and honeymoon got into a tango, a whirl of unbridled passion, suppressed guilt and sidelong glances. It's a virtual sex triangle, steaming under the weather, and getting steamier with every passing mile.

Remember, suspicion without proof is the hottest aphrodisiac nature ever devised. So, let your imagination run wild, it's the most pornographic, erotic, and horrifyingly divine orgasm of the soul you'll ever have. The hype is real, hun!

Now, take a deep breath, refresh your drink, download the new Spice Girls long-play, and join the arena of twisted polymorphic pleasures that they call 'prom night'. Ciao for now sweet, and remember it's all in your head, least it gets you thrice a day.

[1073sucks]

Haha 😂 ha 😂😅

[Anonymous]

Well, the first important part of prom is the girl getting a dress that makes her look REALLY good. So if she has great boobs, she'll wear something cleavage baring or skin tight to show it off. If she has a great ass, she's been in something VERY form fitting and will have a thong or less on underneath. Basically, the goal is to make her prom date as aroused as humanly possible. The girls basically compete with each other to see who can arouse their dates the most.

Then at the prom itself, there'll be dancing. Some of it is formal ballroom style dancing, but that's really just a cover. Mostly it's about freaking on each other. The girls will be grinding their asses into the crotches of their now VERY aroused prom dates. Assess will be grabbed and titties will be felt up.

At this stage, as you can imagine, the sexual tension will be nearly unbearable. So they'll then head off somewhere private, where the saying "off like a prom dress" will be well and truly illustrated. Then they'll do whatever they need to do together to relieve all that sexual tension and come out SUPER relaxed and smiling!

So that's basically what she got up to. Shame she didn't invite you as her date, huh? I wonder what that was about?

[Screenwriter]

If this guy is a friend and you know him, what are you worried about? She's your girlfriend, isn't she? And it's not up to you who she does or doesn't go out with.

The guy probably asked her to go because he doesn't have a girlfriend and he wanted to have a good time with someone he knows.

Sometimes guys go with female friends or sisters, and women go with male cousins and brothers to proms instead of going alone.

I don't understand why this jealousy and possession has cropped up with you.

Sure, people who are seriously dating kiss and sometimes have sex on prom nights. But people can kiss and have sex ANYTIME. It usually has to do with what their RELATIONSHIP is.

Since this guy IS NOT her boyfriend, what IS the problem. If you want to go to prom with your girlfriend, then ASK her. Clearly, this guy did and she accepted.

But why you're making a big deal out of this is the REAL issue.

[PetLover24]

Your mannerism explains why you're dating a high schooler, you're not mature enough to handle women who aren't children.

First off - are you in another country entirely? Is there any good reason why you couldn't have taken her?

Second off - get over yourself. You said she could go so what are you being a bitch about it now & getting jealous over it for?

Third off - if you can't realize YOU'RE the one to blame for this. Get lost. Men like you get jealous over nothing and more often than not that swallow insecure petty jealousy turns into abuse.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are 22 years old, dating a girl who is still in high school. That is wrong, and you know it.

You told her to go, and she said okay. Has the prom already happened?

[chb321]

prom nights happens in colleges too.

[OlderAndWiser]

I have never heard of a college having a “prom” night. Fraternities and sororities have dances which they call “formals,” not prom.

[PetLover24]

@OlderAndWiser - his irrational jealousy explains why he's dating a high schooler, most women older than a child would know better. I mean he is showing telltale signs of men who turn abusive in their jealousy because he said she's okay to go and now his petty insecurities / jealousy is making her out to be a bad person who is in the wrong for going.

[moonlitten]

My college actually hosted prom a couple of years 💀 I don’t think this year though but last year and the year before and the year before HAHA. I think cause of covid tho bc some of us in HS- like me- didn’t get a HS senior prom haha but i still did not attend college “prom”

[Flatmanlewis]

Okay. There is SO much to unpack here so let’s do this quick and be done with it.
1.) Why in the world is a 22yr with a high school aged girl? If she’s college age then it even more so makes me wonder why you didn’t take her - what kind of relationship is this?
2.) Why in the world DIDN’T you take her? Are you studying abroad and 3,000 miles away? We’re you not asked to be her date? If not my friend, you’re not her boyfriend.
3.) Did you not speak to her all night? How can you not know what happened during her evening?
4.) Do you even know this classmate? Is her gay guy pal? A cousin? Her BFF since 2nd grade? Captain of the wrestling team? I mean, it all matters.
5.) There is a sort of weak man energy coming off this question which may be why she took some other dude and you probably should spend some time diving into that topic.

[Miristheiss]

Are you long distance, living somewhere else? Why didn't you not go with her? If I've been with a girl for a long time and we are serious (vs. just casually dating for 1 month) NO OTHER man is taking her to her prom, I AM. If she disrespects me and is disloyal by spending the night as a date to another man then I dump her on the spot.
You sound like of weak and as a pushover that you don't seem to have any boundaries about this and just act like she can get your commitment and boyfriend privileges but then pull this stuff.

[moonlitten]

I mean, if you said it was okay for her to go you can’t go back on that now. All you can do is ask her, how did it go? what did you do? did you have fun? and if you are curious if she danced with the man at all, just ask her. just say hey, this has been on my mind a little and just ask. if she says yes, just ask her what type of dance. At prom you can slow dance w a friend and it not mean a thing. but then you can grind and that is the “50 shades of grey” part. but if you know your girl well and know she loves you, you will know she’s done no harm. additionally, if others know that she’s in this relationship, no one would “cheat” out in the open.

[Quogha]

Dude this is creepy as fuck. You’re 22. She’s in high school. Let her go before you go to jail. Wait, she took someone else? Most girls go with their boyfriend. Does she even know you’re dating? Is this a one sided relationship? You a stalker bro?

[Quogha]

In fact, after reading your GaG profile’s opinions and questions, if you’re truly dating this underage high school girl, you should just turn yourself into the police.

[Roxilicious]

I’m one year older than you and I cannot fathom wanting to date a high schooler or still be worried about high school situations honestly just get yourself a girlfriend your age and just let that, little girl live come on now 😩

[milo2u]

I feel like you, would be that girl.

[Roxilicious]

I’m confused what you’re trying to say? Can you specify a little more

[milo2u]

If the roles where reversed, you would probably be that high-school girl dating someone older.

[Roxilicious]

Yes, I was.
As an adult now. Yeah guys who date minors are definitely predatory.
Once you’re past your teens, there’s no reason to even want to be in a teenagers space unless something went wrong.
I wish I would have listened to ALL the warnings that normal adults who were likely just like me, normal.
You don’t just grow up and still want high schoolers that’s just bizzare and tell tell somethings up

[milo2u]

I think you went off topic, and didn't ask that guy for more details on how they met.

[sheikalana]

Is best if you stop thinking about it and get over it because what is done cannot be undone. You're freaking out and she was probably just having fun with her friends. If you suspect something more happened ask her. There's no point in freaking out about something that possibly didn't even happen.

[KrakenAttackin]

@sheikalana. You know her date went balls deep.

[sheikalana]

@KrakenAttackin LMAO.

[dustybiker2]

You could just trust her. If she does someone with someone else she wasn't meant for you anyway. Find someone who wouldn't hurt you.

[SolitarySolace]

Everyone will hurt you and they’ll pretend they won’t until they finally do

[dustybiker2]

@SolitarySolace you sound like you expect people to be perfect. People aren't perfect they are human. Humans make mistakes. Make poor choices in times they are given a split second to choose. Not everyone hurts everyone intentionally. There is a big difference. You have to allow people to make mistakes or you're never going to stop being disappointed.

[SolitarySolace]

I never said people had to be perfect. People aren’t made to be perfect. But people aren’t made to hurt others and gain something by doing so.

[dustybiker2]

Accept it might happen and gently let them know they hurt you. We adapt to others. It's a process.

[SolitarySolace]

So when I was falsely accused you’re saying all I had to do was tell her she hurt me? 🤣 Do you honestly think that would have worked?

[SolitarySolace]

You think all 4 of the girls who cheated on me would have seen what they did was wrong if I told them they hurt me? 🤣

[SolitarySolace]

You think the girl who conned me out of $1,000 would have returned the money to me if I told her she hurt me? 🤣

[moonlitten]

personally @@SolitarySolace it’s obvious you’ve been through some bad experiences with girls. Additionally it seems to be a pattern. So usually when someone jumps from girl to girl and try to give it a go, they tend to fall for the same type of girls. I see you’ve been cheated on by 4 different girls. You are attracting those females by the way you present yourself. Maybe work on yourself and stay away from a relationship for awhile and the right one will come. Being upset over things you can’t control is a waste of time and energy. At the end of the day, it happened and move on. You cannot change everyone and humans make mistake but you’ve got a pattern here. You have to change what you attract by growing yourself. It’s psychology not my opinion. Just do some research or maybe seek therapy like I’m doing. breaking the pattern is hard but it’s worth it.

[SolitarySolace]

“Maybe work on yourself and stay seat from relationships for awhile and the right one will come”

I’ve been single by choice for 9 years now. 🤣 There is no such thing as the “right one.”

“Just do some research or maybe seek therapy like I’m doing”

I do research every day and that research just boosts my resentment for women. Also I’ve been seeing a counselor/therapist for years. He knows about my resentment for women and usually tells me I’m doing fine. I won’t allow for him to turn me into one of those men who allow themselves to live under a woman’s boot.

[moonlitten]

That’s pretty sad. Not all men are the same and not all woman are the same. It’s okay to choose not to be in a relationship, but I hope you don’t give up on it. We only live once and love is a beautiful thing. I’m sorry you haven’t been through much happy relationships. But at the end of the day, if you are happy without wanting another in your life, then do that. And I can see you have firm beliefs over “the one.” we can have multiple ones ofc, but also by the way you sound and the way you complain and have this belief on woman, seems to me you haven’t grown at all. but have accepted this way of perceiving woman, which is quite sad. Not all woman are the same and not all men are the same. If you ever do give relationships another go, I hope it goes well and I hope you don’t resent the woman for your past relations to woman. To me, you contain a fixed mindset, and obviously if your content with yourself your therapist will always tell you that your doing fine. Doesn’t mean you can’t grow in other places though. I wish you the best of luck, and if wanted, a girl that you won’t resent. It just confuses me that you explain you’ve been going to therapy, but yet, you look down upon all woman, especially if you’ve decided to be single but if what being single makes you happy and you don’t want to have a family, i support you. But just bc some girls fucked you i
up doesn’t mean all will. I’ve been in a abusive (physical & mental) relationship, SA, cheated one, etc. but I still give love a chance but that’s my choice and I’m happy with the man I am with and he knows what I’ve been through.

[SolitarySolace]

I know that not all women ate the same but all women are capable of doing the things I’ve experienced regardless of whether they’re good or bad people.

He may know what you’ve been through but do you know what he’s been through? Maybe he’s only with you because he feels he has to be with someone or else everyone in society will consider him the way they consider me.

[dustybiker2]

@SolitarySolace It's becoming clear to me through the past couple of weeks you have impossibly high expectations of woman and what standards they should meet in your mind.
When you do this you will always be let down or felt crossed.
Woman are not inflatable objects.
They are self thinking snd feeling beings.
If you want to connect with one you must meet them halfway, on everything. You must accept they have faults (as all humans do) and more importantly, that you do too...

[SolitarySolace]

1. I do not want to connect with a woman. Haven’t wanted to for 9 years now.
2. Even if I did accept their faults they wouldn’t accept mine they’d claim they would but that’s bull.

[dustybiker2]

@SolitarySolace 2) Then you contradict yourself with all of your questions and replies here. They come off as preachy and defensive. Two signs of being hurt but not wanting to be alone.

Go read my last opinion. You never know what might help some people. Sometimes it takes one penny dropping, others a hurricane of them.

Guys and girls, in dating, what are qualities that would turn you off about someone you're physically attracted to? ↗

[SolitarySolace]

How am I contradicting myself? I don’t want a relationship with a woman I refuse to live under a woman’s boot.

[dustybiker2]

@SolitarySolace If you didn't you wouldn't be taking about woman all of the time. I'm muting this one now. Enough already.

[SolitarySolace]

So I can’t have an opinion of women unless I’m dating them? 🤣

[QuickToAsk]

Please tell me this is a troll post. Please tell me this isn't really your life.

I mean, this is a troll post, ... right?

... Right? 👀

[BoopBoopBeep]

You're a 22 years old male and you're asking what happens on prom night?

[chb321]

Yes. I have never went to a prom night.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Or seen a movie either, apparently. So why are you not going as her date and some other dude is sleeping with her instead?

[JacobJordan]

Doesn't matter what normally happens she could have invited you and didn't. Relationship over mate

[Anonymous]

Unless that guy is gay, then he's always a threat in my opinion. Especially if he's better in some ways. She might Tbh prefer to be associated publicly with him instead of you for whatever reason.

[HelpfulWoman]

"why did i allow her"
i hope she realises to dump the trash before it goes any further

[ShadezMcgee]

You are 22 years old and fretting about prom night? Seriously?

[Dongie]

The bigger question, why did you not go. She prolly lost her cherry and is preparing her dump on you speech. You a cuck or what. Practice your Auto romance bud. And become familiar with online porn. The cuck section. 💋

[Shedzij567]

All I know is I would have went with the Guy who I really want.

[SolitarySolace]

If I were you I’d break up immediately. She’s probably cheating and I would not stand for it.

[boggboss]

Without knowing your girlfriend anything could have happened or bithing could have happend

[Unit1]

Did you say prom DATE?

You're about to get "cucked" mate. Get out of there.

[Anonymous]

She’s his for the night. They dance together in a intimate fashion her pressed against his chest. His hand roaming on her back waist. They hug and all that.