Me and my boyfriend haven’t been together very long maybe like 1 month or so, but I feel like us getting into petty arguments isn’t normal and usually it’s usually him that gets mad at me. I’ve tried to talk it through with him asking if I did anything wrong and usually we talk it through but there was this one day we got into a petty argument and he said “I’ll call you later your being a brat” and “ you know you didn’t make me feel happy today”. I apologized for what I did after but it’s just so weird how I apologize for what I did but when he does the same thing to me there’s nothing wrong. Then a few weeks later I’m going the beach with some friends because I really needed it that day and tell him there’s gonna be 2 guys there and tell him everything about where I’m gonna be, who the people are and then straight after he said he’s fine and asks me if he could go to this huge college party with his old friends where he would get blacked out drunk. And part of me was like if he could trust me than I could trust him but the two things we were going to was completely different. Me and my friends don’t drink or go to parties, so I was so iffy about it, eventually he said he didn’t go. So I call him when I get home before I go to the beach but I was crying from something my mom said to me and the build up from him telling me about the party and stuff but I didn’t tell him that part. But when I call him he tells me he’s high and he ate an edible which he says he doesn’t like weed and proceeds to tell me it makes him feel so good, and even better than when I give head. Everything that day just kept making me feel worse and worse. So I started crying, right after he tells me he was joking and he didn’t take anything. But my issue is he’s always trying to get a reaction out of me and I’ve just got tired of it because it’s so confusing. Why does he keep messing with me and my feelings that’s all I need to know.
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Why does my boyfriend keep messing with my feelings?
