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Guys, What does it mean when a player doesn't give you a love confession, instead a motivational message?

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Long story short I’ve met this guy, he’s a very well known player, he’s ambitious with his future and know precisely what he wants, I also do and we both have similar goals in life.

For April fools I asked him if he’d fake kiss me, which we did but he wanted to actually kiss me, even more than a kiss, I didn’t let him, not even a hug.

While we was messing with me I told him that “I’m not easy.” He then told me that “I figured, and it must be cool to be your boyfriend.”I asked “why?” He answered hesitating “Because you’re not stupid, you’re actually smart and…. pretty.” I simply kept rejecting his advances.

After everything I knew he was just messing around, but since we actually got along the next day we went to eat, but I still haven’t given him any suggestions that I’d fall for him. (I even told him that I won’t fall for him.)

While we were eating we talked about our history, family problems etc, we found out that we both had messed up family history with our parents but care for one of our parents, in my case my father, and him his mother.

I asked him if he’s ever shared with people about his life, he said “not really.” I asked “why?” He answered saying that “Not many people care enough to even ask.” I told him “You know, I asked because I want to get to know you sincerely, not to play games.”

And then we kept talking, and while I was eating I caught a glimpse of him simply admiring me as I ate, as if he was in love. He seemed genuine, but I don’t believe him.

We message that day and the next, the weird part is, is that he gave me a text the next day stating that “I know your life was hard and difficult but that doesn’t define you neither does it define whom you’ll be in the future, I want us both to become better people in our life and have ambitions because I know you’re better than that to just end up as a mediocre person in life.”

I sent him a message as in a day ago, and he hasn’t responded to me, I don’t understand if he’s serious or not.

Guys, What does it mean when a player doesn't give you a love confession, instead a motivational message?
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