If a guy tells you this would you take it as a good thing and feel special? or feel as though he’s gassing you?

[dearryy]

If you get along well with a guy. The two of you converse well. The vibe/energy is natural and not forced. You guys can talk as if you’ve known one another for years. The two of you have been out on a date but he mentioned to me that I should pay attention to the other women he and I are around because he says they like him and have been mentioning the both of our names. Saying we have been mentioned in gossip. Although nothing is going on besides us just getting along well and getting to know one another. The gossip is supposedly that they always see us together having conversations. He’s basically saying the other women who like him are wondering why he doesn’t give them attention the same way he gives it to me and that I’m in the “golden seat”. It just seems like something he tells women to make them feel “special”

[Finchie40]

Yea he sounds like he is too high on himself , like he is this prize possession that you are lucky to have interested in you , he is clearly talking out of his ass , by trying to impress you , when really he isn’t impressing you , you probably think he sounds like a moron , which to me it sounds like he is a moron. Usually when people speak highly of themselves , they are usually liars and selfish people , that think their own shit doesn’t stink. Me personally can’t stand people that are that way , it’s ok to have some confidence in yourself , but to broadcast it like you are the center of every one’s attention? They are sadly in for a rude awakening , when they realize they really don’t mean shit to anyone. He sounds like a douchebag sorry to say

[ohsheeT]

I see nothing but pure manipulation...
He's trying to basically force you into getting jealous and make it and move on him before one of these other women do I guarantee it if you were to walk away right now none of those other girls would have anything to do with him

[EmmaMary]

He sounds just like one of the many typical self conceited, arrogant and egotistical individuals that roam the planet.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[DaveJord]

I would not say that is something you would tell a woman to make her feel special. It sounds completely narcissistic to me.

I would be put off by that, honestly and not believe a word of it.

[ProbablyClueless]

It sounds like he's gassing you to me. It's supposed to be a flattering thing, but there's just a certain weirdness to it. At least, it's weird in the way I'm reading it.

[OlderAndWiser]

When i was dating, i would have NEVER said that to a woman. Sounds like he is feeding his own ego. And he probably has a wee willie.

[spartan55]

Really? Guy is pretty full of himself... sounds like a douche.

[DrPepper12]

Quite an ego. Maybe he says it to keep all of these possibilities on guard and in the mix.

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆 most people are smart enough to tell the difference.

[strateguy632]

i think he was honest

[MasterKS]

are you seriously 25?