If your SO kisses someone, is it still cheating?

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As kissing is normalised today, is it still cheating. My girlfriend is an actor and she kissed (on lips) multiple girls and guys. She even shot naked and sex scenes for short films. Should I be worried?

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Kissing isn’t “normalized today.” Many cultures have used platonic kisses since ancient times to greet comrades and dear friends, beloved family etc. Prudish values seized the western world sometime in the Middle Ages and we’ve been spinning our emotional wheels in the mud from then to somewhere in the 1960s, where the collective human psyche of the Western world was busting at the seams of its confinement… enter “the sexual revolution” (the far extreme of the pendulum… which broke a lot of things in the process of “liberating” society…
Anyway… it’s all about the INTENT of the kiss, the touch, the thought, the action… cheating isn’t like dropping a pen… it’s an INTENTIONAL CHOICE… so yeah… it’s cheating to kiss someone who isn’t your SO for any reason other than a peck on the cheek on greeting to a friend.

_Maya_ · Accepted Answer

You are a little vague. You do mention that she is kissing people and then also she does it for work (actress). Now if she is kissing people for any reason other than work then yes that is cheating. If she is doing it for work then no it is not. So I am not sure how to vote in your poll because while you mention work you don't mention if that is the only time it is occuring. Based solely on the work part... no it is not cheating because that is a job. You should know that would be a possibility if she is in the line of acting that would require sex scenes. Would you consider it cheating if a guy touched a girls privates for work? That does happen. Think doctor, gyno, nurse, etc. They are just working too.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

If all of this is her job and being done in a professional manner (sex is simulated with no real penetration) then she is doing the job you know she has. Are you allowed to visit her on set?

TommyMountainFigure · Accepted Answer

You knew what you were signing up to when you agreed to go out with her, so no, in that position it's not cheating.. merely a job, which you may or may not be uncomfortable with.

Finchie40 · Answer

If she is kissing others outside of work , than yes that is cheating

AviatorTom · Answer

It's her job, nothing more.

Zbrody1997 · Answer

It’s very dependent, however if it’s their job that’s different they can chose to refuse or even fake as much as possible but that has to be their choice. Tbh if you’re uncomfortable then you should leave because it shows that you’re not comfortable with your woman’s choices and probably not a good match however. I don't know the whole story

TerrySilver · Answer

Yes it's cheating. Just because ''it's in her job'', she's still literally kissing others. She's not acting it. She's actually kissing them. She can say no to kissing scenes. I'd leave her for sure if it was me. It's like a dating a hooker and saying her being nailed doesn't count, ''because it's a part of her job''... lol

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Kissing is still cheating to me but I could forgive it. If you are not comfortable with her job or career choice you don't have to stay, just break up if you don't like it.

4ngelic · Answer

in your situation wouldn't say its cheating since its part of her job. though in a normal context kissing is for sure cheating. if my boyfriend kissed another girl i'd next him immediately

IslaTheWitch · Answer

for your girlfriend, kissing and sex scenes (but not sex itself) are part of her work so now is a question: do you trust her, it's just work?

CrabCakes11 · Answer

If she kisses people because it’s her job and she’s an actor, that isn’t cheating. If she’s kissing people for other reasons, then it’s cheating

Anonymous · Answer

That's the norm for acting. If they're doing it for work, it's just work. If they're doing it outside of work, then worry. But you'll have to decide if you can accept this will be common for an actor.

ManInChains · Answer

Yes it is cheating because they are showing affection to/for someone who isn’t their SO and if they become defensive they is how you know they know they fucked up

Anonymous · Answer

I take it this is a fabricated question. When someone dates an actor you assume the person knew she was an actor. It is a job. If her contract is too strict she won't get hired.

exitseven · Answer

if it is part of her job I guess you would know it from the start. If it is just a little kiss I would not like it but I have done the same thing.

Twalli · Answer

Acting kisses don't count. They're not even real kisses, you're told to do that. Most actors feel awkward doing it.
The only kisses that are romantic in nature I would allow would be on a show like Temptation Island.

RossyBoi · Answer

No, it's not cheating if you knew about it when you both started dating and she didn't keep it a secret from you.

Bricealan · Answer

Only if she kisses his penis after she sucks him off!

DrPepper12 · Answer

It's acting. Relax as far as your concerned. She may have regrets but that doesn't involve you.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Cheating is whatever the partner deems it to be. No one else's opinion is relevant.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Nope not at all, clap your hands for her and enjoy seeing her banged by random guys 🤣🤣

Nikki1989 · Answer

Not even close.

MattyIce_IceBaby · Answer

I think so.

jahaims · Answer

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