If a person kisses you, is that cheating?

[AlexAlexx]

If you have a girlfriend/boyfriend and another person kiss you on the lips, you freeze up cause of shock and then push them away and leave, is that cheating? Just curious. And would you tell your girlfriend/boyfriend about it? What would you say?

[sarahbeara2010]

I wouldn't consider that cheating. I mean, once the shock wore off, you pushed them away...which clearly indicates that you did not want to be kissing them. It's not like you grabbed a hold of them and shoved your tongue down their throat or encouraged their behavior in any other way.

As for telling your significant other, I would suggest going ahead and doing that...just in case the kisser happened to get all angry/butthurt about being rejected and decided to go run her mouth and try to make it seem like you did something other than shy away from the advance.

[justbanANNAz]

no, I'm not the one who initiated it, plus I pushed them away. clearly that person would b a desperate jerk [or jerkette in a guys case:P]

id still tell him tho. he'd get pretty annoyed and want to kill the guy [yeh he's protective:P]. id tell him that some guy came up to me and kissed me but I told him off and kicked him in the balls, or punched him in the chest.

id srsly do that

[justbanANNAz]

heh thanks=]

[gloomy]

i do not think it's cheating on your part unless you kiss bad but the fact that someone else kissed you yea I would definitely go after that person. You should also tell your partner explain how it happened he/she will probably be mad but shouldn't stay mad for long

[Dionysos]

You didn't do it. They did. You didn't cheat. I'd still say tell your SO about it because they might have a butt to kick for messing with you.

[vmw2008]

It's not cheating as long as they had nothing to do with it. And Yes, I would tell my sig. other about it. I would expect him to tell me if it happened to him, and I also wouldn't want him hearing about it from anyone else and assume the worst.

[Troian]

If you pushed the person away, I don't think it's cheating. If you do it on purpose I consider it cheating. I would tell my boyfriend if someone tried to kiss me like that. It's better than he find out from me that from someone else.

[australiarocks]

i definitely second that. if your not the one that kissed them then you didn't cheat. and you definitely should tell your significant other because it'll look worse if he finds that out from someone else.

[Ildskf]

No, that's not cheating if you didn't do it, and if you didn't kiss back. I would tell my Boyfriend and would hope he'd tell me as well. I'd just say exactly what happened. I would be grateful if it happened to my Boyfriend and he told me.

[Anonymous]

Anything that would make your S.O upset if they found out you did with someone else is cheating. Depends if they were upset?

In this case no- you didn't initiate it, and you stopped it. So you didn't do anything with another person. You stopped it.

[523206720]

It's not cheating if you didn't try it and embrace it and seek it out. Tell her this person is trying to date you but don't tell her you kissed her back because you didn't.

[Fling]

It isn't cheating. You should be honest especially since you are still bothered by it.

[eringirlCA]

definitely not cheating

[bex0912]

if its your ex boyfriend then he presses his lips on yours and you should push him away and kick him in the balls

i'd would do that rec amended

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't consider that as cheating

[tiredofwaiting]

Nah I wouldn't consider that cheating.