Should I text my ex happy birthday?

[Anonymous]

Hey everyone,

so My ex and I broke up a month ago because she lost feelings for me and I begged once and then left her alone after that she contacted my out of the blue sometimes and we last talked on 25 April where she asked me how did my exam go. Today is her birthday, should I wish her happy birthday. (She posted some sad shit on her business account / meme account and she still sends me snaps every day, I don't know why). its 7pm here and I haven't texted her birthday yet.

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

No way, dude. Looks like she's playing with your emotions & seeking validation by way of attention. You have to understand that many modern women are addicted to attention. You have to completely cut her off. Ignore her. She will come back stronger, looking for attention, but just know she doesn't want you at all, she's just addicted to attention. She just loves the feeling of being wanted. She's giving false hope to try to keep you around. If she ever says she wants you back, do not believe it. If you fail to follow these instructions, then that's your tail...

[AviatorTom]

I wish my ex-wife a happy birthday. The breakup and divorce after 20 years, though sad, was amicable, and we're still on decent terms. We have kids, and occasionally see each other.

Your situation is different. Feel free to wish her happy birthday, but make sure it's not a gesture to get back together.

[Justneedtokno]

It’s OK I am a person that struggled With letting go of the little bitty things that you normally do because you’re so used to doing them say happy birthday is not that big of a deal until eventually you stop doing it and it doesn’t even matter you delete out your phone calendars whatever it’ll go away until eventually it doesn’t matter to you anymore unless you go back to this person, but you will always care for this person and that’s OK

[Justneedtokno]

Thank you please do not let nobody bother you about your feelings and how you do things be free yourself from mental struggle of time and healing. Just do what feels best for you.

[midnightmoon05]

Do you want a new girlfriend. At some point?
no? K… keep talking to her?

yes… well… how would your new girlfriend feel about this?

[OlderAndWiser]

After a breakup - assuming you don’t have kids together - the last communication with an ex should be waving goodbye to them in the rear view mirror. If you want to move forward, stop this now!

[avery58]

Why not? It's just a happy birthday message...

[HawkPerception]

No. Don't be a simp. Get on with your life. Success is the best revenge. Become a man all women desire and show her what she missed out on.

[Valdemort]

If you're gonna regret not saying happy birthday: do it.
If you feel indifferent to not saying anything: don't.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Yes. Something like, I hope you're having a nice birthday wouldn't be wrong!

[TommyMountainFigure]

Damn this new site layout!!! I've just seen this question is 9 days old lol

[Truthatanycost]

Learning how to make clean breaks will serve you well in life.

[strateguy632]

dont. it is awkward because you're separated

[Fireguy17]

sure, why not, just keep it simple, no I miss you crap or stuff like that.
Just happy birthday and that's it.

[Anonymous]

Unless you think there is life left in a relationship you would choose to have with this one, let it go. She broke it off, time to focus on yourself now.

[ColHathi]

Little late now, but if you still care about her and want to stay friends, then yes.

[boobliker]

that depends if you still talk, and has she got a new guy?

[Iron_Man]

Yes that would be a good start back to that.

[Anonymous]

How did it go?

did you text her? If so, how did she respond?

[Asker]

I didn't, I though "eh, can cause too much drama"

[Asker]

thought*

[JesseP1nk]

No you should not. Espesically if she saw you as needy

[sheikalana]

No, you shouldn't. That's a terrible idea.

[gorydetails]

No. Don't be a pussy.

[dudeinohio]

No. Never attempt to communicate with her ever.

[KrakenAttackin]

No, that makes you look pathetic.

[Paulx]

Absolutely freaking not!

[laly520]

no need

[jahaims]

Move on dude

[OddBeMe]

Why bother?

[Con29]

No way