Should you send a “happy birthday” text to an ex?

[Anonymous]

If the break up was mutual and there was no bad blood I don’t see any harm in wishing an ex a happy birthday UNLESS they are or you are already in a new relationship. What do you think?

Sure, why not

No, don’t do it

Other

[IslaTheWitch]

it depends on your current status... I send a happy birthday to my exes :D

[Asker]

Would you be bothered if your partner’s ex were to send them a birthday text tho?

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't care... he can talk with whoever he wants, his friends, exes, work friends... as long as he doesn't cross boundaries, I don't really care who sends him "happy birthday" or whatever

[strateguy632]

No because it is socialy wrong

[Asker]

I agree, it’s disrespectful towards your new relationship

[boggboss]

Are u still on talking terms

[Asker]

We’re not but he’s been consistently sending me a birthday text even though I’ve ignored every single one of them out of respect for my new man

[boggboss]

Then don't send it

[exitseven]

No they are exes for a reason.

[Asker]

Couldn’t agree more, the past should remain in the past

[jahaims]

Shouldn't even talk to an ex

[Asker]

I 100% agree!

[red-lipstick-girl]

No, don't do this.

[Asker]

Don’t worry I won’t!