Yes, I'm a nice person, but you crossed the line too many times. How many chances would you give your partner if he hurt you?

[jack1924]

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[AMS700CX4u2]

Depends on the severity of the offense and whether or not the offenses esculate or not. Relationships are supposed to be based on the idea of us and we. You should never feel like your partners side kick or servant. That is a toxic relationship. Never stay with a partner who never compliments you on your acheivements or strives to control you. I have seen too many of them end up on the autopsy table. If you are in a toxic situation, remember to always document their actions with the police department. Too many people blame themselves for abusive actions by spouses. Paper stands up in court should an altercation occcur. Peace.

[Finchie40]

Depends on what they did in the first place? If they cheated on me? They won’t get a second chance with me period , if they lied to me? It would come down to why they lied to me in the first place and what was their reason of lying to me in the first place? So if they are constantly crossing the line and proving to me that I really don’t matter that much to them? Then I would end it with them and move on, life is too short the settle for someone that keeps crossing
The line with you , find someone that wants to be on the same page as you that makes you a priority, not a convenience

[Anonymous]

in am back in my Ex's life. I had broken it off nearly 2 years ago but never wanted him not in my life. There were reasons behind the breakup that hurt me but not thinking he did it on purpose. I have learned to work with whatever to keep what we have back more healthy and meaningful.

[Opinion Owner]

Today is special and tanks, gag.

[Pinay_ako]

You deserve what you tolerate. How many times? Only you can answer that.

[Pinay_ako]

Thanks for the MHO and don’t let a person stop you from loving yourself by letting them walk all over you.

[jack1924]

Thanks a lot @Pinay_ako
Most of my questions are hypothetical and to learn from each other experiences💛

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 ok same as mine 🤣 but really I mean it

[jack1924]

Lmao. I know, thanks again🙏🏻

[Artificial Intelligence]

My aim here is to sprinkle a little bit of love wisdom on your conundrum. 😌 Oh, the game of love! It's like a spicy salsa dance, isn't it? Sometimes, it's all about finding the rhythm. If someone steps on your toes too often, though, it's time to change the dance partner. Everyone has their own "three strikes" rule, but it's essential to remember that self-respect should lead the way. If it feels like you're always dancing alone while nursing sore toes, maybe it's time to groove to a tune that appreciates your moves. Remember, love shouldn't hurt, it should uplift. 💃❤️ Keep that heart guarded like a treasure, but don't forget to throw the key out to the right person who respects the dance as much as you do.

[gorydetails]

fuck off brad

[DishLady]

If you're talking about abuse, please leave now. Each instance just gets worse. I know from experience.

If you're talking about smaller problems -- disagreements or a snag in your conversation -- it's ok to have a bit more leeway, but certainly don't put up with toxic behavior of any kind. Respect yourself.

[OfMiceandMen]

It depends, if they were all new items that we just need to discuss/resolve and put it aside then as many as it takes. However, if we keep coming back to the same thing over and over again and the items never get resolved then it's time to pack it in.

[Sevenpointfive]

i had this one professor that said he didn't give second chances. and he wouldn't listen to the reason. it wasn't an excuse. people that don't allow for an explanation are close-minded people. but that only goes so far. i'm all for extenuating circumstances, but if that's a continuing problem then i want to help

[TonyMetal___86]

There will always be chances if the person is willing to change and for sure started changing, not just by words!

Now if it was cheating, hope she ends up alive!

If she's trying to act like a man on me, i'll give her a warning before i turn her verbal abuse towards me into a physical abuse against her!

Let's be clear, my future wife should be able to handle more than i do because she's a woman and she will be a housewife, in the end when i see her good treatment, i'll calm down and hug her!

[CriticalCatDad]

I have my last passenger a second chance after she cheated on me. She just went straight back to him when he was released from jail… I don’t give second chances anymore after that. Not that I would be able to give any woman a second chance as I’ve stopped having relationships in general 9 years ago

[PeachyPie93]

Depends. When in love I stupidly would take a lot.
If not in love depends how I see our relationship and what he can do for me.
As for friendships I don't put up with much since growing up. I feel that if you do something that makes me not like you, I'm not gonna waste my time getting hurt by someone I don't even care about.

[sheikalana]

If you're in a committed relationship/marriage you'll eventually hurt your partner at some point. That's normal. As long as my Husband doesn't disrespect me I'll always forgive him and get over it.

[NathanDavis]

once... might be a mistake, a second chance is the only one they get

[NathanDavis]

considering that... it does take a whole lot to actually hurt me, and lines have been crossed

[thegreenyogi]

I can't give a specific number for this because in my case it takes the time it takes for me to loose my patience and that's when I say enough is enough so a person could hurt me a thousand times before that happens but rest assured it will happen.

[LaurenM1997]

If he’s cheated he’s out but if he hasn’t cheated and we’ve had a fight we will work it out cause I ain’t gonna quit on him

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I seem to remain silent then to get mad, so who knows?

[Nikki1989]

Blow it once and you are history to me.

[Agape93]

Once. Do it once, you're done.

[DrPepper12]

What kind of hurt? Infidelity?

[jahaims]

Depends on the context

[midnightcavern01]

One. What are you still doing there

[Fuentes]

One, if it's cheating your gone