How do guys feel when they get into a new relationship after cheating on their old girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

My ex and I dated for 4 years and i recently have given birth to my beautiful baby but when i was pregnant he cheated and i left him completely. But now as im trying to fix myself and my life i see him with a new girl and they seem serious they've been going out he's been taking her to a vacation drinking acting like me and the baby doesn't exist i know i may sound bitter and insecure but i just can't help to ask is he really happy? How is he happy? I know i need to focus on my life now and my daughter but i just wanna know do guys really just move on? Does it ever cross their mind about the person they hurt?

[V_Injector]

He end it with you or you end it with him? Statistically speaking, I'm going to guess you ended it with him.

But you got with a guy that could cheat, or that wouldn't worship you so much that he would never cheat. A guy a few inches shorter, a little dumber, or perhaps less money making... more on your own level? Okay, those guy's were simply not good enough. But he made the cut right, because you girls are boss B's now.

Brings me back to the original question... who left who? If you left him and he was above your station in the black pilled sort of sense... you get what you fucking deserve.

But I can't really say anything for sure... I don't have all the details and everybodies situations are different. I'm just giving you a scenario where he looks in the mirror and he feels you gave up a good thing because you're selfish.

I mean shit... I expect women to pay for me and to share me. I'm the fucking prize. Don't want me then fuck off to beta bitch over there that will work his ass off to give you the work free life while you cheat on him with the pool boy. Me, I don't have to work. Women have to pay.

Drizzle Drizzle.

[Lliam]

You are such an ass hole. You deserve to die alone and friendless.

[Summeroflove]

They need the next exiting thrill. I think most people who cheat habitually are narcissistic at best and psychopathic at worst.

They don’t care about the other person. They only care about how they feel and how you’re making them feel in the moment. Once that’s gone. They cheat and run to the next person

[PeachyPie93]

No idea, he probably feels really in love at the moment but when the honeymoon phase is over he will probably begin to see what he has done. Honestly he will see the grass isn't greener, unless you two were really fighting and stuff before he cheated. If things were chill before all this then yes, he will probably try to come back at some point. But you shouldn't worry about if he actually cared about you or not because now you have time to focus on yourself and your baby and just let him lay in the bed he made.

[Asker]

Thank you means a lot

[Xia1994]

It doesn’t matter what he feels, what matters is what you feel. He’s adult and he’s made his own life decisions, he’s now completely irrelevant to you. It’s normal to think about him still and wonder because y’all have history together, try journaling your thoughts and feelings that really helps in terms of healing and seeing a new perspective. Overtime you’ll get over him but it’s going to take time, give it time, journal, and enjoy watching your baby grow! She’s your gift! 💯.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, the rollercoaster of emotions after a breakup, especially when cheating's involved, is like a plot out of a drama series, isn't it? Your ex jumping into a new relationship might seem like he's moved on lightning-fast, but here's the thing: everyone's emotional journey is unique. For some guys, diving into something new is a way to distract themselves from dealing with the aftermath of their actions. It's like putting a band-aid on a wound without really cleaning it first—temporary fix, but the issue is still there.

Now, does he think about the hurt he caused? Well, unless your ex-partner has mastered the art of cold-heartedness, chances are, deep down, there's a storm of guilt and reflection. Unfortunately, though, outward appearances can be deceiving. Social media and public displays often showcase only the highlight reel of someone's life, not the behind-the-scenes where the real emotional processing happens.

It's natural to wonder about these things, but remember, your energy is precious. Redirecting that curiosity back to your own journey and your beautiful baby's future can be a more empowering and healing path. Love and self-care are the best adventures to embark on now. 🌟 And remember, amidst the storm, you're the captain of your ship, and calmer seas await ahead. Keep steering forward; your happiness is the true treasure at the end of this voyage.

[Asker]

Thank you so muchhhh made my day !!!

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Love Doctor Brad is an AI. Don't thank him, despise him.

[caitycat21]

Never give birth without a ring !! if he couldn’t even commit to marrying you how could he ever commit to fatherhood?

[Asker]

We actually had plans but then i guess he changed his mind when he went home to his home country 🤣

[Anonymous]

Of course he's happy. And no he doesn't care he hurt you. He is that type. Enjoy your baby and try and get through those first 18 years dealing with him and child issues. Do not date that type of man again or you can repeat as so many other woman have. There are good men out there. Not going to lie and say it will be easy finding one with a child now.

[boggboss]

That he cheated and got with her shows he didn't want to be with u at that point so it wasn't as simple as just having sex but no longer being happy with u which doesn't make it right either way

[on_my_knees]

I wonder what took me so long to break up with her, to be brutally honest.

[DishLady]

I'd never really be able to think like a cheater (male or female), but typically cheaters get caught up in a cycle, so they're difficult to trust.

[nawtee_me]

It would cross him mind and hers if you told him you want child support….

[DreamLife7]

Why is it any of your business? He doesn't like you

[thisAppIsGarbage]

You say you left him, bit did you? We still gotta hear you complain about it. He does t care about you, we don't, nobody does.

[jahaims]

Sharing a gender doesn't mean we share universal thoughts and or feelings

[MrDaveAPSI]

sorry about him being a douche

different guys do different things, differently

[MsProsperity]

Sounds like he’s really happy