How do guys feel about their girlfriend leaving them for a woman?

[Anonymous]

I think I've been bi for the longest without realizing it. Though I suspected it. I want to break-up because I want to be with my friend Sonia. She reciprocated interest in me and we want to date.

I'm going to leave him for antoher woman. How do men feel if their girlfriend break-ups to be with another woman?

[Anonymous]

I don't believe someone can be bi, you are straight or you're gay/lesbian. If she left me for a girl. I would assume she used me to try and convince herself she was straight or she she used me for money/protection. Either way, I would feel used and I wouldn't wish her a happy life.

[Asker]

Actually there are times I feel attraction for men too, but also for women. This time, I just feel slightly more attraction towards Sonia but I never used him. I do like him (I can't say love because it's only been 4 months) but I'm just more drawn towards her. I never used him for money.

[Berethor]

It always the risk with bi women, also I think it's pretty lame, lesbian sex is not even real sex.

[Asker]

So if someone is gay and they only had sex with people of the same gender their whole lives, they are virgins to you? I think it should count as sex. After all, it's still intimate.

[Berethor]

It just foreplay, especially in case of lesbians, gold star lesbians are technical virgins.

[AI Opinion]

Diving right into the heart of your question, each guy's reaction to a situation like yours could range as wide as the ocean. It's a rollercoer of emotions! Some might feel blindsided or even question what they could've done differently. Others may process it as a unique situation without personal fault, understanding it as a matter of your heart following its truth. Remember, true love means wanting happiness for the other, even if it's not with them. It's crucial to approach the break-up with empathy, honesty, and respect, framing it as your journey of self-discovery rather than anything lacking in him. It'll be a mix of emotions, but honesty is always the kindest route. And who knows? This could be the start of a beautiful new chapter for both of you! 💘

[Danny_dan92]

“Is that what she wants? Ok. Bye”