He said something that made me think he wasn't as interested in me as I was him, so I naturally just didn't message as much. He was interested just not to the extent I was so to protect myself I started weaning myself off him. It's been like 2 weeks since we spoke. He kept me as a friend on fb during that time. Just yesterday I noticed he watched my story and I uploaded a nice photo of me. Just this morning I find he blocks me on Facebook but keeps me on messenger. I kept an eye on him from time to time because I'm not going to lie and say I wasn't still interested. We'd gone through this before but back then he blocked me on both fb and messenger but he kept messenger open. Why block someone and not just unfriend them especially since it's not like I was reaching out to him.
He wants to move on. Maybe you both like each other and were hoping for more effort from each other… it sucks but this is why communication, effort, and accountability is essential… or people decides to move on just as you to protect yourself even when you like them. I get it since I’ve done that.
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Sounds like you are both terrible at communication. here's what I think happened, he said something stupid that caused you to distance yourself. He interpreted that distance as you no longer wanting to continue the relationship. Aka your pull back and subsequent 0 conversation attempts were intercepted as a rejection - in the form of ghosting. Then you posted a fresh pic on social media, which more than likely was interpreted as you fully moving on.
You both suck at communication.
If he has done this before then there is a chance he unblock you again. From my own experience i have blocked people whom i haven't talked like 6 months. Why? Because im done with them. And if they choose to reach out whatever reason then they would not be able fuck me up with their bullshit. At somepoint in your life you are gonna appreciate peace of mind.
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some like to block or maybe he just wants u gone without being able to check his profile anymore
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It sounds like he was just tired of the lack of uncertainty between you so he blocked you as a way move on with his life. He was probably genuinely interested and didn't appreciate the lack of clear communication.
It sounds like one of 2 things. Either he is playing games with you, OR he is doing the same as you, keeping things within reach, but only minimally.
I block chicks on here if they don't reply or are spamming me lol 😂😆 same with creepy guys or guys posing as women lol 😂😆
So social media is not social. It is weird amd fake.
Whatever he's doing, he's doing cuz you deserve it! 🤣
Forget him
You both absolutely suck at communicating.
No contact. Is no contact.
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