She will ask me why I don’t text her quickly constantly and it’s driving me insane. She is 45 doesn’t she have a life of her own
She is lonely. Tell her that you cannot fill in a gap for her that keeps her asking for contact.
You don't mean to be rude or inappropriate, but you simply do not have the time nor patience to talk every day and tell her you don't mean to be upsetting, but the kind of contact she wishes is not something you can offer her. Suggest her to redirect her focus into figuring out why exactly she needs to interact at all times. It's not your responsibility how she feels, especially when your actions are meant to be harmless.
In all honesty, you shouldn't have to explain yourself, but as someone who has been left hanging multiple times, it would probably calm her mind if you did (it's up to you however).
So I suggest you tell her how you feel. Even if she takes it the wrong way, there's nothing you can do about it, unless you want to spend the rest of you life babysitting your cousin because she doesn't want to look herself in the mirror and ask herself why she needs the amount of attention she is asking for.
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Reply only when it's convenient for you. You don't need to explain why it took you so long to get back to her just say you've been busy.
Say it politely that I can't respond to you all day. I have other stuff to do as well. Either I can talk in evening or morning (whatever time you want to).
And that you can't use your phone all day long.
If you can't do that, stop responding. Don't even open her chat so she doesn't get to know you've seen the message or not. Gradually she'll stop.
Be honest with her. Tell her you enjoy keeping in touch but everyday and all day long is way too much.
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Goodness, thats annoying behaviour. That said, you might want to get a new phone number and just keep your respectful friends on that number. Then you can turn the phone she continuiously texts you on to silent and maybe answer her once a week or something (or whenever you feel like responding).
I would just tell her, make it light and jokey "I don't respond to my partner half as often as you text, so I certainly won't be spending my day texting you back lol; No offence, we just have a different idea on social eitiquet sure we can coexist" (though bear in mind im very much a straight talker, and some find me rude).
If she's a decent person she'll laugh and say 'yeah I do text a lot dont I'; If she's a bit of a control freak she'll probably take offence, but if your lucky that offence will mean she won't text you 'because she's annoyed with you' its a win!
Best of luck!Such people are like vampires. You should create your boundaries, it's essential.
Respond when you want. If she complains, don't respond.
You tell them you are busy and don't elaborate further she will get it eventually
Only respond when YOU want to! Eventually, she'll cut down on her texts, too.
Call her up, be gentle and polite, and tell her you can't constantly respond due to studies, work, gym, personal errands etc. Just be straightforward, open and transparent for her to get it.
Don’t respond every day, that will slow her down
Call her and make it firm with her that this is not acceptable. You would like to still talk to her but on a lesser amount.
Tell her you can't be alert 24/7 on your phone since you would rather do other stuff with your time.
lol she single, she needs a guy in her life.
Set Her Straight on Your Schedule. xxoo
Say stop texting so much.
So block her.
Only reply once a day in a huge block.
Don't respond problem solved
Stop responding
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