Clingy is subject to the perception of the person.
Being who you are is more important. If they don't like being spoken to, they better be fine with you speaking to other people (else just dump them, no point being with someone who doesn't care about who you are.)
Perhaps it is better to say, people who find connection to what you have to say, or are constantly stimulated by your thoughts and ideas would be more willing to listen, especially if they can also converse and be heard.
People don't like talking to assholes who only know how to talk but never listen. They also don't like speaking to sycophants who don't really agree with them but are pretending to so as to 'get' some kind of favour later on.
Naturally these people get dumped. And the umbrella description sometimes include them as 'clingy'. You want attention, but never give any when needed.
Basically it's fine to ask for attention, so long as you're being fair and giving attention when needed. Learn to grow a spine and never let a person reverse the tables and call you clingy when they are the ones who demand attention, but never welcome your requests for it. Just dump them and let them figure out what they did wrong. Don't perpetuate mistakes. Don't blame yourself for what is clearly their fault.
I never understood where that started from. Probably some bullshit magazine. If you like someone it's never too much. Somebody that describes that as clingy is someone that really wasn't that interested I. The first place.
I don't know if your situation is similar, but I literally just dumped a guy I kinda liked because he kept calling me. We were unable to text for X reason and he would call me like four times a day. He woke me up this morning. I'm not a morning person. I work everyday and am very busy. He would call while I'm at work an interrupt me when I was with a client. Very annoying. But if that's not this situation then you're good 😆 If she REALLY likes you , you can call her at 3:00 am and she probably won't get mad 😊
actually, It's never too clingy if she likes you equally.
but to answer your question: depends on how she response to your texts n calls I guess.
if she's always reply with short answers n never bother further the conversations. daily greeting is more than enough. asking too much might make her feel pressured.
if not, go for it. be as chatty as you want ;-)
You are only clingy if you are also unwanted.
For the guy I like, my heart flutters and I get all fuzzy and warm when he calls me and every time I see him. I enjoy all the messaging we do every day. I love his company, I love his voice, I love his touch.
As for the guy I dislike, he's annoying as fuck and I want to slap him when he messages me "hi."
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No. To me clingy is when you ask someone "what are you doing" every freaking 5 minutes. Or if you ask them the same question over and over again just because you likr them and want to talk and got no interesting things to talk about. It doesn't matter if the couple like each other equally. They will get annoyed eventually.
Ehhh I don't think so but excessive messaging and calling perhaps may look like it is. If it seems clingy then... does that person even realize how much care you have for them? Whether it be someone you like or a friend and family memeber. I text mostly everyone at least everyday even a hello, good morning, how are you because I care. :)
it depends on the people, my love language is touch and quality time, basically that means, if my SO doesn't take the time to tell me they are thinking of me, they don't care about me, yes some see it as clingy, BUT my most recent bf understood, and would do it to humor me, i would do little things for him because his was acts of servous, doing something like refilling his water showed him i loved him, even though it didn't do anything for me, so it depends on the people and if you communicate
It really depends on the level of your relationship... If you are just starting to talk then if she likes you then she will want to text all day. I wouldn't hang out but once a week because too much then she will get tired of you very quickly and if the relationship goes anywhere then talk on he phone for about 1 to 2 hrs a night and if she doesn't answer don't keep on calling until she does just wait for her to call you and emailing is just weird don't email
My bf and I don't see each other much now that its vacation from school, so we text all day 😂😂 I don't know if its clingy:/
but we love each other, that's why
Clinginess is also subjective in my opinion. What may be clingy for one may be too aloof for another. Again, it is about finding the partner that matches your preferences.
I reckon it can defiantly appear like you way more interested than them (especially if you are the person texting first/calling most etc) But i am a super emotional person and when i need to text its like needing a cigarette and i just have to. If it makes you happy who cares ;)
if you text and don't get a response don't text again until you do.
don't feel the need to text everyday, give them a chance to miss you, that way when they do get your text it puts a smile on their face instead of the eye roll.
I found it pretty clingy when my, now ex, would send me early morning texts that were like novels about how much he loved me and how I was his everything and we had only been dating for about a month. It was too much too soon.
Emailing is weird. BBut if you guys are feeling each other then go for it.
it sort of depends. if i like the guy, i don't care if he texts me all the time, i'll probably think he's really sweet. but if i don't like the guy, one text is one text too many.
I dislike texting as a form of communication, but I'm not opposed to shooting them around.
Just respond when you can, don't let it distract you from real life.
No it ain't clingy if you not blowing up her phone before she can reply back...
my bf and I are long distance so texting every day is necessary.
only if you text excessively.
Females think everything is clingy i stamp on everything if they say your too clingy then everything you do is clingy
If it is then I'd be 1 clingy ass mother fucker.
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