Guy's Behavior

Texting everyday?

There is a man (36) that I’ve (27) been talking to for about 4 months now. For context, he approached me in person, kept pursuing me after I flaked on him 3 times and always states how persistent he had to me to acquire my attention in the initial phases. I also felt emotionally unavailable twice and told him that I didn’t want to proceed talking because I needed to work on myself and was polite about me needing my space but would always spawn back a day later lol.

Since we’ve met, he’s texted me every day. He is in a high level position (CEO) & I appreciate his efforts to make time in his day to send me a message.

Recently, he got a new job which is very high pressure. It is 13 hour days and I know the transition to a new role is stressful. Obviously I realized the quantity of our messages was decreasing to once a day with multiple messages crammed at once.

I wanted him to know that I’m aware of his high pressure job and he doesn’t have to feel obliged to message me every day because I understand his new work load is a lot. He said it meant a lot to him that I understood him because not many understand his workload. I thought this was great communication.

Fast forward to today ( for context he works Mon-Friday) & he hasn’t messaged me all weekend. Like I stated he has intense work days but he has weekends off. I could comprehend if he is still working at home but a part of me wonders if he may be upset with me.

I can’t tell if what I said came across as rude and I wouldn’t want him to feel like Im rejecting him. I would like some input so if anyone can provide a third person perspective, I’d appreciate it. Thank you !

Texting everyday?
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