It's been about 5 days since then or should I just move on but I miss him so much :(
We went on dates a couple of times, slept together a couple of times. Lately he's started to move away, but now he's completely disappeared
u He got what he wanted and has moved on. If he was interested, he wouldn't wait five days to call you. He has already started looking for his next victim.
Learn a lesson from this experience. For many people, both guys and girls, having sex makes them rush forward and want more of a relationship. You know you rushed into this but your brain stops working when you drop your pants. And if the guy is a player, you are really setting yourself up for a crash.
Work on your self-esteem and stop thinking you've gotta give a guy sex immediately to keep him interested. If he can't see any value in you without having sex, then he is not a candidate for a relationship and you are just running up your body count with painful experiences. Learn to guard your heart more carefully.
Woah, that's pretty intense. I'd say don't text him for now. From how you described it, seems like he might not be ready for a relationship. Could just be going through some stuff too ya never know. I know it's hard when you like someone but gotta respect their space I guess. Maybe give it another week then try reaching out one more time if you still feel the same? But also start putting yourself out there again too, don't wanna sit around waiting. His loss if he don't wanna be with ya! You'll find someone better who treats you right.
Yikes, that’s terrible. Don’t text him and try not to think about him. Develop another hobby or something instead. Know you’re not the issue, he is and he knows he’s a waste of time. The dopamine and oxytocin will fade. Take time to yourself and think about what you actually want if you do get into a relationship, make a list of dating intentions and expectations when looking for another partner.
I wouldn’t tbh. Did he say anything else other than “that’s cute”? Did he say if the feelings were mutual or not? If no, then definitely DO NOT say anything again. You will find better and someone who is actually sure about you instead of disappearing.
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I'm sorry to hear that. It sounds like he's trying to be nice but either isn't ready for a relationship or doesn't feel the same way.
Perhaps he was interested at first and now isn't, or only wanted a casual situation all along, but either way he isn't worth it. I think you should forget about this guy. He isn't the right guy for you. You'll find someone who sees your value, I promise! You're valuable and amazing remember that.
Sorry, you got played by him, he did everything to sound like the one you wanted that you gave it to him and he ran off when you wanted things to be more serious and wanted the next step. Honestly you missed the sign he was going to do then when he started becoming more distant. But keep your head up he wasn’t a real man and you deserve better than him
Communication is key. Reach out to him, express your feelings, and ask for an explanation about his sudden disappearance. Honest and open conversation can help clear any misunderstandings.
You can say things like, “I’ve missed our chats over the past five days. Is everything okay? I’m curious about what happened and would appreciate an honest conversation to clear any misunderstandings.”
Unfortunately I don’t think he reciprocated.. it’s best to move on :( it’s disappointing, but he didn’t sound very sincere by ghosting you after a confession.
Seems like either he's scare of commitment or he was just using you for sex..
Either way he ghosted you when you were pretty emotionally vulnerable with him.. Not to mention all his response was that it was "cute".. Lol..
I think he gave you your answer at that moment... A man doesn't ghost somebody he feels the same way about.. Allow yourself to find somewhere will feel the same way about you. And try to avoid "situationships"..
Don’t text him just yet. Something may have come up. But honestly he probably just got what he wanted and moved on. So you can give it a little time if you want to hold onto a little hope. But I would suggest maybe just start to give yourself a break and understand there are a shit ton of guys out there!! And if he texts you, great! Best of luck!
I'm going through the same thing. I finally met someone that like to have sex. Thing is she has sex with so and so. I thought maybe if I just ask her to be mine she would feel that I respect her and maybe she would stick to me. Man! She burnt off. She mean and all that. Really weird. I should have just keep it like it was. Now I'm back at trying to find that one. You have to be a special kinda gal for me. Damn she was it.
This one just used you and like lots of stories this is just you being a victim here sadly:/. You should get a lesson for future, never ever sleep with someone without marriage. If someone wants you as you then you need to be the one. Even polygamous people are better than this guy.
He is a dick and sadly drags the reputation of most men down with him. Forget about him, learn from your experience and twink twice how you go about the next person you meet. Good luck!
he doesn't feel the same but doesn't want to be rude about it
Oh dear, we have another one.
Let’s back up a moment. Was this supposed to be a friends with benefits type of thing? If so, he probably doesn’t know how to respond right now.
u Why would you be so quick to throw in the towel? Anything could have come up? You don’t just move on you talk to him
Sounds like you got pumped and dumped by Chad. Choose better next time.
Why would you text someone who doesn't like you? How much sense does that make? Are u stupid?
Chad got what he wanted and now he's on to the next.
Don't text him, just let him be and live your life. If he wants to be in your life he'll text you
5'1-5'5" .. 5'2" is most adorable.
Hypothetical of course... I'm married. 🫣
It’s over. He isn’t interested
Please for your own sake, don't.
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