I know a grown man who I really like.
But I had the feeling that there was someone watching me, that is him, and so I decided to make a film in which he secretly observed my body from head to toe.
I honestly would like to know if this gesture has a meaning or not.
That is just another pervert that only sexualizes and objectifies you. Nothing extraordinary but worrisome nevertheless.
I would personally take my distance from such a person because his behavior is indicative that you, as a person, are not really what interests him but only your body. That is not a person that I would want to be with as he is clearly showing how primitive his behavior is.
Unfortunately, the world if full of those kind of men that don't perceive a woman in any other way than to objectify her. It is like the new gangrene of modern society.
Well he's scanning you... yes, he likes what he sees. Do you like men who scan women? I do not since they scan eberyone. It's an agessive form of flirting from an 'alpha male'...
As others have said, it's hard to believe a 40 year old asking this question. I assume that's not your real age.
He is checking you out, just like men have probably checked you out thousands of other times. If you have a reasonably healthy looking body it will probably happen tens of thousands of time in your life.
Usually it's just a quick look. If they linger, it's rude.
Seriously, I'm more interested in, what you think it means, being 40 years old? I think you should be able to put this together on your own. Not being sarcastic. Are you seriously asking this because you don't know or even possibly know what it means?
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My guess is he's attracted to you. I find it curious you refer to him as "a grown man". Your profile says you're 40 years old. If that's true, you are most certainly an "grown woman". There is nothing wrong with a grown man expressing interest in a grown woman.
this seems like a question for like a 15 year old just now dealing with being viewed sexually and not a 40 year old that has had to deal with this her whole adult life.
Is your age correct?
Well, congratulations, you look good. And your appearance is appealing to him. But he says nothing about it, because he assumes you are not interested?
so I decided to make a film in which he secretly observed my body from head to toe.
So you are recording him without his knowledge or consent?
Most men are very visual when they see a beautiful girl , so if he is looking at you head to toe he is more that likely checking you out and probably wants to have sex with you
So, you are 40 years old and never had a guy. check you out before? Meaning? Lol... okay... he's checking you out.
I thought the girl at the local fresh produce and butcher was cute today. She had a great cute body and she appeared to be uncomfortable. I couldn't help it. Women have nice curves. Should I feel bad for that?
Let's see, here. You are "40" and feel you need to make a secret "film" of him observing you? Let's send this script back to the writers for a rewrite on this scene.
Yeah he's either judging how you look maybe intrested on how you look to see if you have a nice body
Yeah it means he was checking you out, and most likely liked what he saw.. But a grown man? It says you're 40.. Lmao..
He's either checking you out, or noticing the fact you're standing in front of him.
You’re 40 years old and you seriously don’t know why men look at women up and down?
You want us to validate/confirm your own suspicion in order to take things to the next level
m he just checking u out
he likes your body, he thinks you look good
Probably he is checking you out.
Probably checking you out
He was checking you out :D
He likes your body?
Because you're flabby
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