Why do guys keep calling me ugly everyday?

[Anonymous]

I noticed it's mainly Hispanic guys who do this. I don't know if they have a strong dislike for African American women or what. I get people have preferences literally almost every man claims to have one. I noticed when I wore a long straight weave they kinda left me alone. But when I had twisted extensions I was being made fun of and pointed out like I was a zoo attraction. I took my second wig out because it didn't last and I'm wearing my hair naturally curly AND it DOES NOT LOOK BAD NATURAL but when I'm walking through the mall I hear mutiple guys voices say "she's ugly." Constantly and it hurts. It hurts to see couples everywhere all these girls getting love especially because they fit in with the beauty standard while I walk alone being called ugly and put down. Someone said if men don't find you attractive they will treat you bad. I even have a guy throw a bag of chips at me when I was purchasing from him. I already deal with mistreatment with men I lived around. I grew up with a dysfunctional family. I work at a retail store and the older men there either would give me dirty looks or ignore me when I ask if they needed help. Then younger guys would either make fun of me or give me a dirty look. I even had teenaged guys call me ugly and I'm literally an adult. I noticed ever since I stopped wearing makeup. I don't look masculine without makeup despite what people think. I know that if I have a straight wig on that kinds of protects me because I look more caucasian despite not wearing makeup. When I go fully naturally no makeup and natural hair I get called ugly to their faces turn blue. It's extremely annoying and hurtful. Another thing is there are no other African American women like me around here so I guess that's another hint. I don't know if Mexican people don't like our kind especially in LA county but it's very hurtful. I feel like this is another reason I'm still single I get that preferences exist literally but there are no other people like me aroun

[Avicenna]

Well, most of the time when you think someone is ugly, you don't say anything, so for someone to do that really shows very bad character. Sorry to hear that you have experienced this.

[boobliker]

it ok they call everything ugly it may be a bit like people use (like you know )

[Apple1996]

Very weird for them to randomly be calling you ugly

[Iron_Man]

It usually means they like you when they say that