Don't gossip and talk lots of shit about us in public and to your girlfriends. Participate in the relationship and give me a basic acknowledgment if I say something to you. Generally take my needs and desires into consideration. Do me the dignity of giving me an honest answer when I ask you a question. Actually listen when we speak. Don't let your insecurities turn everything into a personal attack. Don't argue with me over tiny things. Being able to take, use and give constructive criticism is also extremely important.
Honestly, most of that respect stuff just boils down to not being difficult at every opportunity. If you are genuinely kind person who is comfortable just being, you'll be 85% of the way there. After that, it's basic communication and social skills and not being actively antagonistic to others.
So many women are such difficult, tedious people to be in relationships with, precisely because they aren't comfortable with themselves.
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In relationship terms it's very simple. I want to be treated as the most important person in her life, and in return I will happily treat her the same way.
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Don't do all the talking. Be willing to compromise. Don't talk about me behind my back in a negative way - if there is something you don't like, tell me.
I want my cock worship... JK I want an equal, a sounding by, a companion, a gym buddy, a mom to my kids, a adventurous woman in the bedroom, a woman who kicks ass and takes nam s, a woman who will tell my toxic family to fuck off. A CO worker, a friend, a lover.
Respect my beliefs.
Respect my desire for alone time.
Give me the benefit of the doubt if I've done nothing to lose it.
Respect the fact as a man, I'm masculine.
I am a firm believer in respect being earned, and that doesn't just apply to her. I need to earn her respect, it's a two way street.
Respect- a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements.
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To be respected anywhere in the world looked up to
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To be treated as everyone deserves to be treated, no worse, no better.
to be treated the way you want to be treated
To be treated just as well as women are
Common sense respect
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