Would you date a woman who was pregnant with another man’s child?

[coachTanthony]

Yes

No

[Siri137]

A question that is indicative of just how far society has fallen over the last three decades or so. A few pertinent questions: 1. Where is the father of the child? Deceased? Shouldn't HE be helping her raise HIS child? 2. If he's not deceased (the majority of cases apparently) then where is he and what is he up to? Is he in prison? 3. It takes two people to create and raise a child, so how did she get into this predicament in the first place if the father was an irresponsible douchebag? There's this thing called 'discernment' that allows an individual to weed out losers, among other things.

[Siri137]

Thanks for the MHO! :)

[EmyyWolf]

Women should never date after becoming single mothers. Cause the stepfather 10x times likely to r—pe prepubescent stepchild.

There’s already too many Biological Fathers who already do this to their own offspring. But the chances double with a StepFather.

[Avicenna]

Hell no. She has too much drama and chaos in her life and has no business bringing another guy into it.

[Finchie40]

Probably not , that wouldn’t be a turn on

[SexyRedd1966]

Seems to me a lot of you live a very sheltered life because men are doing this all the time... actually I was pregnant when me and my ex husband got married and there was no drama... No we're not together anymore because we were just two different people, but he's a great dad to the two children I had and the two we had together... we're great friends and we all get together and do family things together, including his wife and whoever I'm dating (prefer being single) 🤷🏾‍♀️

[coachTanthony]

question is should they be doing that? What is the benefit

[Apple1996]

Yes I don't see a issue with that. I also would only ever be with men that loved childern regardless if they were or weren't his biological childern. It's disgusting how some men can run around saying they like childern yet it only applies to his biological childern 🤢 how to spot a animal from a man in these comments here

[Mr_twoface]

I would certainly date a women who's pregnant but how far it would go will depends on how I would feel after those dates. Surely the baby will be a big responsibility and so is finances if I ended with her but if there is love, anything can be worked out.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't say it's impossible for me... but I travel a lot and have met thousands of "baby mommas." They're well aware of how that's perceived by decent guys, so many of them try to play it off as if the baby daddy abandoned her when he went in the Marines, but in reality it's 3 kids, 2 of which she lost custody of, pregnant with the 3rd and all 3 baby daddies are in jail. There's what they say, and then there's the reality. If it really WAS just 1 guy and he did go in the Marines and leave? Then I'd consider it. But that's virtually never true.

[LadyKitty]

Well I am not into women in the first place. So to flip it around If I was single and man had a woman pregnant I would not date him because there would bound to be some kind of drama. If they have kids already its one thing but about to have a kid with some woman would just be too much.

[OfMiceandMen]

You don't really get to choose who you fall for, so if I thought she is my perfect partner/soulmate then my love for the child would likely grow just as much as it does for her. As for the cost, it's what you take on when you love someone, to me benefit would outgrow the actual cost.

[LiamJHayden]

Maybe if she is a surrogate for a friend or relative who cannot carry, but otherwise I do not think so.

[coachTanthony]

Maybe lol

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

How pregnant are we talking?

And do you mean date like one time? Or like serious relationship dating?

[coachTanthony]

As prego as the ohoto

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

She's pretty, but getting physical with someone that pregnant would be super weird.

[coachTanthony]

Yep lol

[Anonymous]

No, I would not. For a man, children mean risks and responsibilities with virtually no rights. That equation only makes sense if the children are his, and even then it is questionable whether it's worth the risk anymore for men.

Also, if a single woman is pregnant, it suggests some things about her character that are not flattering.

[Levin]

No.

There's lots of women at work, often with two or three different fathers.

It is non stop drama because they made such poor dating choices.

[NathanDavis]

I would rather let a pregnant lady take care of the pregnancy... lol

priorities

[JHAYES317]

No…. I don’t think I’d want to date a pregnant woman period unless it was my kid…I’d be cool being a stepdad later in life but only after the kid is already at like the 2 year mark cause babies are a pain…

[Staximus]

Hell no. I'm not going to get involved with a woman who is too stupid to figure out if the relationship is going to last before having a kid with some guy.

[molonski2]

That one just doesn't quite fit with me , perhaps after she had given birth , just dont think it would feel quite right.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely not. Been there, Done that, Wrote the book. The kid is not mine, And her hormones are badly out of balance. Not worth the trouble.. Especially because the father is likely still in the picture somewhere.

[Unit1]

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[Purpleronnie]

One hundred percent no ! , I don’t even want children of my own let alone another man’s

[Berethor]

No, I don't want a non-virgin woman, let alone a woman who has a another man's child.