Would you date someone with an unborn child from another person?

[ThePregnantOn3XD]

Yes

No

[BlackBeauty90]

Most men would not. Because it indicates she struggles with meaningful relationships. Why is she single? Was she cheating? Was she involved with some douchebag that cheated or otherwise unsavory - and what sort of baggage is that going to be?

Nevermind the potential hassle of the previous partner and biological partner of the child being involved in that child's life & thus adding unnecessary baggage to a future relationship.

Furthermore, it is not biologically - to be extremely blunt - benefical.

Both women and men to want their own children with their partner.

Raising someone else's child is NOT beneficial to the man or (with single fathers) woman's bloodline. It can actually be determental if the single mother or father favours their first offspring over any resulting children that are conceived with current partner.

Seriously.

Single mothers and fathers have some of the HARDEST times finding new partners because both men and women consider the typically headache inducing HASSLE that comes with being involved with them.

It's why I heard single mothers is quite often found on Matched and other online dating and not all of them disclose they have children knowing that that is an AUTOMATIC reason not to be contacted.

[BlackBeauty90]

*biological parent of the child

[Agape93]

If they got an abortion, sure. But I will NOT be stuck in a relationship with a kid, much less a kid of someone else. I don't have the patience or mentality for that cluster.

[JustMe07012000]

Uhm... Let me start with that some men would love to be a father and that honesty is the way to go. It will give a great subject to talk about, either way. Why did you meet in the first place and wouldn't you try to date after the birth? Whould that even be possible? So I advice date or be single, because pretty soon it's not about you guys anymore, but the baby. Don't rob Mr. "didn't meet you because..." from his could have been future. Oh... and filter the guys just looking for pregnant women off course...

Being a father for kids other than your own isn't that difficult. From a biological point of view I agree with the previous post, but we humans are a bit strange and don't tend to kill babies because they are not our own.

I follow a movie maker from Greece and he made a perfect short-movie about this. Although the father found out rather late and the mother did cheat, in the end it doesn't make a difference in how you love your child.

Movie maker: Constantin Pilavios
Short-Movie: D+A (2018) // Director’s cut - Youtube

[OlderAndWiser]

1. I am already in a committed relationship.

2. If I wasn't, I am 68 years old and don't need a baby in my life.

3. I also would not expect to have much in common with a woman of chldbearing age.

4. I would expect a pregnant woman to not be ready for a relationship with anyone else and probably still be somewhat entangled with the father of her child.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[Guy13]

I would not date someone with an unborn child from another person.

[D_Bone_Steak]

No... I have options. I might bang, but I'm not just going to elevate her to a higher status than my cum dumpster. She comes with the perk of not getting pregnant with my kid and that's about it. So... I can use her for practice so I can impress the chick I would like to get pregnant.

[Kabluie]

Remember this scenario first happening in high school as I grew up in the teenage pregnancy showing up more often era, which was kind of crazy. Someone in our class was like 14, already pregnant but broken up with the boy, and started seeing someone else.

i would date if there was attraction, but it's not common to seek someone pregnant. There are also swingers who are cool with swapping while pregnant, can consider that dating too.

[genericname85]

HELL no!!! them having a child from another person is already a fringe case for me that i wouldn't go for if there were not HUGE things speaking for the person. if they were currently pregnant, hell no. not gonna touch that. sucks for them. i do have sympathy for it. but i'm not gonna deal with it, cause why would i?

[Gibbons44]

Most certainly not.

It is in fact a violation of my human right to marriage and starting a family that anyone gets involved with a girl that is by the way she looks closer to me - males who do that are marriage thievs and human rights violatots, females who go for lesser are - harming themselves and our kind.

[slatyb]

There's no such thing as a "unborn child". A child is the result of a live birth.

[Sasha0426]

I mean, if the child isn’t born yet, it’s considered unborn. Jesus Christ, don’t be changing shit because the wording makes you uncomfortable 🙄

[slatyb]

@Sasha0426 A child can't "not be born yet". That's a fetus. I'm changing the wording because it is done deliberately by the female slavery advocates to imply that a fetus is somehow conscious. In the first two trimesters of pregnancy there's no question that a fetus is not a conscious being. The chickens, pigs, and cows we slaughter by the millions are more conscious than a 24-week fetus.

[Sasha0426]

Oh, god. You’re one of those who call mothers “birthing person” or call breastfeeding “chest feeding.” 🤦‍♀️

[BlackBeauty90]

@Sasha0426 - did you fail high school? An unborn child is called a fetus. Unless coming from the land of lala idiocy.

[Sasha0426]

Ok, fine. You’re right, jeez 🙄

[Sasha0426]

But, I’m curious. If you look at the definition of unborn, it says, “Not yet brought into existence,” you think the definition is wrong? Also, it says no matter the stage of the baby, it’s still considered as unborn because it’s not outside of the mother’s womb.

[slatyb]

@Sasha0426 No, I'm not. You don't know me at all. That's a typical retort from people of your ilk. The facts don't support you so you resort to ad hominem attacks.

[slatyb]

@Sasha0426 Right, pre-birth, it's a fetus. After a love birth, it's a newborn, an infant, a baby.

[BlackBeauty90]

@Sasha0426 What cracked up dictionary are you using?

Unborn - Not yet born; yet to come; future. Not yet delivered; still existing in the mother's womb. Existing without birth or beginning.

Nowhere in legitimate dictionaries do they say what you're blithering.

[Sasha0426]

@BlackBeauty90 That’s what I read, too. But, it seems like I have made an mistake. I apologize.

[slatyb]

@BlackBeauty90 The phrase "unborn child" is an attempt by the advocates for female slavery that a fetus is somehow a person. A child is a person. A second-trimester fetus is not.

[Berethor]

No, because I am not a cuck, I prefer a virgin, and I sure not want to raise of other man.

[Berethor]

I mean that I sure not want to raise a child of other man.

[cryscrys1]

What’s the difference if a man marry or date single mothers.. common nowadays right..
At the same time so many no’s here is making me lol a little

[TJ1892]

I don't know if this could apply to me, however I woudnt understand the problem with it to a large extent for someone to date somebody who has a child from a previous relationship providing the ex isn't in close contact with your partner.

[rosemilk]

no, that sounds like a lot of issues simmering.

[AdithyaR]

I wouldn't date someone with born kids either.
I've never wanted kids and don't want them in the future either. So dating someone with kids is not a responsibility I'm capabtof taking.

[cth96190]

Yes, under certain circumstances.

For example, her man may have been killed.

[Juxtapose]

Probably not because how is she going to have time for me? She's probably going to be really grumpy and might expect help.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

No thank you! I wouldn't want to be in that situation where she is tied to some other guy for eighteen or more years.

[Kiran_Yagami]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/PB4Nby2Ai-g

Nope.

[Joey999]

I dont see a huge problem if I am attracted to that person.

[standardguy]

Only if the woman is very pretty and is a good match for me and has special sexual traits.

[cloud9vortex1234]

I think it's trashy, and I'm not turned by Pregnant Women. I would also feel like a loser.

[Timid-guy]

As a beta male it is my duty to raise another man's child, Alpha seed is superior so i must provide for it.

[Juxtapose]

Jfc don't do that man and stop downgrading yourself.

[Timid-guy]

@Juxtapose but being a beta cuck is better than being alone.

[Juxtapose]

Is it a fetish of yours?

[Timid-guy]

@Juxtapose yes

[Juxtapose]

I'd be your bull 😏

[Timid-guy]

@Juxtapose I'm okay with that, I'm willing to get to know You Sir.

[Juxtapose]

Follow me then like a good boy.

[Timid-guy]

@Juxtapose Yes Sir

[Brando10222]

I don't see myself being a stepfather so no

[TJ1892]

So if you found the perfect girl you'd refuse because she has a child? 🤔

[Brando10222]

I already have before

[bamesjond0069]

Agree. I've turned down multiple single moms. I'll be friends with benefits or casually date them but they ask for more and I say no at that point. Any dude that can actually get girls would never date a single mom.

[Sasha0426]

@TJ1892 Just because she seems perfect doesn’t she’s the right one for most men.

[Brando10222]

@Sasha0426 I agree!

[BlackBeauty90]

@bamesjond0069 You said it perfectly. Any guy with other options wouldn't consider a single mother.

[bamesjond0069]

@BlackBeauty90 and that's not a bad thing. It's just facts. I like these single moms who think they land a perfect man... guaranteed somethings fucked up about him other women pass on and she just is too deluded to see it. Because I always get women saying my friends a single mom and has the perfect boyfriend new husband whatever... nah that dude got a 1 inch dick or is a foot fetishist or SOMETHING... or else he wouldn't be with a single mom.