How common is it for a 34 year old lady to be interested in a guy in his early twenties (please read description)?

[Al_Musafir]

There is this community group online I had joined and this lady was in the same group. Few days ago me and her happened to be in the same city and she had asked me to meet her. We had an hour long meet and she was very cheerful and bubbly. I got to know from her that she is divorced with three kids but I couldn't guess that because she is very active with her social work. She did ask me to come with her to the city she was traveling in because my mother was in the same city as well. I didn't go with her. I had to leave early where I was going and throughout my travel, she kept asking me if I was okay and chat with me related to other stuff.

What made me a little mindful was her getting very curious about any female friend my life and she kept asking me about how I met them where I met them and how are they. Then without me telling her much, she was saying 'Ohh so you keep it formal with them, okay good good'

I don't want to doubt a pious lady like her but do you think she maybe interested? I have a soft corner for her because of her life and I don't want to lead her on. What do you think?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Call her a “girl” instead of “lady”, she’ll like you more.

Once my brother called 65 yo lady a “girl”, she was so happy I think my brother made her day.

Every woman is a girl deep down.

[Ladyblanche]

That's false. Most women don't think like girls because they are women. In fact I'd take that as an insult because it makes me look like a child.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

We are all different

[Al_Musafir]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 will keep that in mind. What would you comment upon my situation (as per the details of my question)?

[PrincessBunBuns]

it’s just weird lol. what could a divorcee have in common with a recent college graduate?

[NathanDavis]

not unheard of... not that common though

thing is... what is she interested on really? that might be a more relevant question here

[Al_Musafir]

I don't know, how do you think I find that out?

[Avicenna]

Divorced with three kids? Of course she's interested...

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

hi, she could be after friendship or perhaps more... it could be a view to a casual set up of fun and intimacy, it could it more... there is only a ten year gap here, so to me it has the potential to go to the top tier, couple even future offspring.. so if you like her just go with it... if you are totally sure it is not anything to be considered as a future committed situation, just please make that sure to her... often older women especially those from a family break up can enjoy relations with a younger uncommitted soul... but who knows... just let her know how you feel..

[FunkyMonkee]

It's only about a 12 year difference. My parents were 10 years apart and would've celebrated their 50th anniversary had dad not died half a year too soon.

[Al_Musafir]

Was your dad older than your mum or was it vice versa? Apparently societal views go easier when it is the woman who's younger than the man.

[FunkyMonkee]

Dad was older. They both died at 81. But he died 3 months after turning 81, she died 2 months before turning 82.

[Anonymous]

Hard to say. Some women hit the "slut phase". in their 30's and with some they don't hit it till 40. But till then women generally don't want to date younger men.

How fresh is she out of the divorce? a lot of women come out of a divorce especially with kids liked they've been a caged animal.

[Al_Musafir]

No, she's far from it. She lives with her parents and is known for her work for the community.

It's been about more than a year that she got out of divorce.

[Opinion Owner]

Well I wish you luck than man. With a good woman that won't be a deal breaker man.

[Al_Musafir]

Thank you for your kind words.

[Ladyblanche]

Pretty common. Call her a woman though not a lady

[Al_Musafir]

Any specific reason why?

[Ladyblanche]

Lady can seem old

[EnglishArtsteacher]

It's somewhat common, and I think it's because women hit their sexual peak in their 30s, men hit their sexual peak in their 20s, and when the two get together, Hot Damn!

[BoopBoopBeep]

Uhm...1, yeah she's interested in you, 2, maybe she's not as pious as you think ;), 3, enjoy

[Autumnfall27]

that’s not that big of an age gap in my opinion. Go for it. Grown adults.

[WhitneySnow]

I think she’s interested in you. Do you like her back?

[Tomisworthless]

You must be handsome because older woman that seek sexual relationships with younger men only go for the studs

[Jennz6]

Yes, we’re called cougars and I have been with guys your age.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I think you’re more of a Puma, cougars must be 45+

[Jennz6]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 really, I didn’t know that. I just thought because I am older

[CorneliaUSA]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 - Thank you LOL

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@CorneliaUSA Don’t mention it 🤣

[Juneboy24]

All young men are insanely attracted to beautiful older women it’s in our DNA

[Al_Musafir]

I'm asking about the opposite in my case

[patrick994]

Nowadays it is quite common.

[LiamJHayden]

More common than most might admit.

[Anonymous]

Sure, and why not?

[Al_Musafir]

What will you tell about my situation?

[jimmy2]

She is a milf