Yes, I think whatever both people agree to works. If both of you would have a good time eating brunch together then that’s what matters. Personally I think coffee is a good first date. If things aren’t going well, it’s easy to dash, everything is already paid for usually, and people can sit and talk for a long time if things are going really well.
Just focus on figuring out if you’re compatible. If maybe you are looking for different things or if you’re interested in going on another date
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Anything you can do together and have each other's attention. Is a good first date..
I personally don't like the word date. Because then there's something that is premeditated pre-organized and a Time for both..
I'm more spontaneous. And would rather make something happen or a place happen doing something we both enjoy at the spur of the moment
Not for me. I'd wanted something adventurous out the gate. Saves time on future dates.
Riding bicycles to get a bite to eat or something. You find out a lot about someone in a couple mile bike ride. Do they complain, or having fun? How do they interact with me and people we pass? Friendly? Open and laughing or closed? Much better than face to face in a question match the entire date.
Yes, it's better than dinner at night when people just go have sex after dinner.
With brunch, you can go for a walk in a romantic place outside and get to know each other without the expected sex.
Just don't order the spaghetti 🙂
It's too messy...
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Yes it can be , it just depends on what their intentions are of wanting a early date with you? , The thing is you don’t really know someones’ true intentions. until you find out for yourself , so if I ask a girl out on a date for brunch? My intentions is to possibly spend more time with her , instead of just ending the night with her , cuz it’s getting late. So if the brunch date goes well between her and I , I will more than likely ask her to do something else with me after the brunch , since we still have the night time ahead of us. If I was just trying to fit her into my schedule? that would be kind of rude and disrespectful. So I am pretty much asking her to see her as soon as possible cuz I am really interested in her. , and I really want to get to know her and hoping we can possibly spend more time together if the date goes well between us , by getting to know each other more , since we have a whole night ahead of us. If the date doesn’t go well? than I would probably make other plans before the night is over , again we can’t read each others’ minds , all we can do is try. I been on a few brunch dates that went really well , we ended up spending the whole day and night together , so if the chemistry and connection is there between her and I , that’s all that matters. The more you get to know someone the better it can be.
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The venue for a first date depends on what you want to accomplish on the first date. Do you want it to lead to sex, do you want to have extended conversation without any expectation of sex, do you want to entice him to ask for a second date, do you want a nice free meal, or what?
I think I know the answer but I don't want to assume that I am correct.
It's a good idea, but does that mean there's less of a chance that it'll lead to sex afterwards?
Oh yes brunch! My favourite meal time! I like pancakes, French toasts and crepes and lattes! So yes please!
Sure, public place, enough time to get to know each other. Enjoy!
Sure; it's really whatever is good for both of you
From my experience, it would be a GREAT idea for a first date! Can't think of a better way to get acquainted with a new person.
I had two much younger friends - they were a couple- and we met because I periodically dated the young guy's mother. The three of us went to Pelican Hill Resort in Newport, for a Sunday Brunch and it was fabulous time, and only wish I had been with Colton's mother
That said, the Brunch was a great time for us, and I think that is a fun, relaxed way to meet someone for the first time, informal, and always fun to enjoy a nice meal with someone you like.
In my experience not really. Unless it's a fetish of yours, watching someone eat isn't the biggest turn on. And it's not really conducive to actually talking. Instead do something more intimate where you can sit close to each other and he can put his arm around you and have a casual chat over some coffee or drinks.
Or even go to his house and watch something on the TV That You can ignore while you make out with each other. Is sex an option if the date goes well? If so don't be afraid to drop hi at that you're down. Physical touch goes a long way to show a guy you don't mind being more intimate.
🥪Omg yes! Invite please.💌
🌹I bring the best housewarming gifts for my girl brunches!!! We wear teacup dresses which are my favorites. They don't need a corset and there's more freedom to move around.
👗Loved this question! Most people have no idea that Brunch is even a thing lol. It's so fun too.
It's better than a coffee date for sure, but not as auspicious as an offer accepted for a true dinner date. The shorter the commitment of time, the less sure the person is that they even like you. When I was still dating, I never liked to waste time "testing the waters" in person. It sucks just that much more if it doesn't work out. We got a solid feel for each other beforehand over a phone call or two and a video chat. If a woman wasn't willing to give me that much, I didn't meet her for any reason. This made meeting in person a far less nerve wracking ordeal and made an enjoyable evening together far more probable. If you aren't even sure I'm attractive enough for what society once considered the standard norm, then that's already a bad sign. No need to waste any time or money.
Yes, people got to eat and food related activities for a date is great cause not only is it a relaxed atmosphere but also allows you to see the type of manners and respect they got towards others guests, waiters, yourself and how they go about eating in front of you. I've gone on dates where their rudeness towards others/waiters have clearly shown their character that it was it for me.
It can be… if it’s either someone you’ve met a few times before or if it’s a setup with your friends.
Typically a meal is more of a second date thing. First dates should be shorter — a walk, a coffee, a drink — to test the waters and make sure you’re compatible.Why not? It’s cute and if yalls have been vibing good, it is better to build a good connection, impression, and romantic while not focusing on potential sex during the day if you want something serious.
But then again with modern dating… most don’t wanna do this because they don’t wanna be stuck with someone without knowing if they like themIdeally you want to pick something to do that allow for the two of you to chat while doing it.
- Museum
- Walk in a park or on a beach if weather permits
- Get a meal together
- A drive to watch the sunset
- Shopping, but only if the guy likes fashion
- Escape room if you know they like puzzles
- Dancing, personally I don't like clubs
- Video game arcade. If you know she is a gamer.
I guess so. But the last guy I was seeing our first day started in the arcade and hanging out at the mall mid afternoon, then dinner around 5 or 6, then a movie which was an ideal timeframe for me and gave us enough time to spend and get to know each other a little more. But everyone is different
It's fine if you are already acquainted. If this is your getting with someone you met online, then brunch is too much. Meet for coffee and if it's going well, then go have a meal.
Yes absolutely. I think any meal can be a good first date.
You have time to get to know one another, and you have the added bonus if it goes well, to spend the afternoon together too.Sounds like a good idea to me. A bit better than a regular dinner date. Off to IHop you go! 🥞
Coffee. Keep it short. If you don’t like him then you’re stuck till brunch is over.
I love first dates as I put most girls/women off very quickly as I am blunt I will ask for sex, kisses, and what can you do for me. Before even thinking of food and where to go for it, smells and too much makeup piss me off as most of you don't need that much, and it hides the real you!
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