Confused on what to do please read?

[Anonymous]

I cheated on my girlfriend and am continually trying to fix it and respect when she wants space but one day she will tell me she wants to try and the next day she says I don't know and I’m confused on what I want to do she has also cheated on me once in the past but has changed as far as I known n but she is super friendly with other men and I’ve tried to explain to her that this makes me feel like she doesn’t believe what we have is anymore special then what she has with them, thanks

[YesterdaysChild]

From prior threads on here about cheating, most people say they would not take them back, and once a cheater- always a cheater. When trust is broken you have lost it all. She deserves someone she can trust. I would say move on and learn from your experience.

[linka_pat307]

Just let her be I mean she cheated and you were able to forgive, am not supporting your act but you two should talk and decide whether to end it or not so that you are not kept waiting?

[Asker]

Yea I mean it’s just hard I value our relationship a lot and want to fix it but she says she does sometimes and different other times

[linka_pat307]

This is 2024 , what you want can be with someone else other than her, you have tried a lot with her betrayal but still tried to save that relationship and I think it shouldn't be one sided, she should put in efforts too

[Asker]

I mean yea I’ve been putting in a bunch of effort with her trhinf to hang out write her apologize letters fix things with her parents and she says she is trying by seeing me after work

[Asker]

But it does feel very one sided

[Asker]

And like what me and her have isn’t very special as she is nice to every guy and everyone of them can get a conversation out of her

[Lynnzee]

Cheating is never a good sign of a healthy relationship. If u want a happy healthy relationship you may need to move on. It's hard but let it go and if it's meant to be it will come back, hopefully the way u want and deserve

[MadinaHasABensheer]

you're relationship has ended the moment you both pursued other people. she's no longer into you, that's why she's 'friendly' with other men. you need to break up with her. the 'special' thing you two had is gone.

[2_beHappy]

It seems to me that you two no longer have that special thing you re talking about. Once there is cheating in a relationship, it can no longer be a normal and healthy one.

[sheikalana]

Both of you are immature and toxic for each other to maintain this relationship. Is best if you just part ways from each other heal, grow and learn from your mistakes.

[Dbtr99]

I’d say take a break until the both of y’all mature and grow some.

[Anonymous]

The trust is dead. So just keep being together and accept that or leave

[Anonymous]

You are both made for each other. 🤦‍♀️

[Asker]

Lmao 😭