I am not sure why, but this has happened to me quite few times.
For the most part I pay for my own drinks, buying one at a time. When I say mostly, with friends we take turns buying. I also try not to allow men to buy me drinks because I find it rude to accept a drink when I have zero intention of giving them my attention. I dress for the atmosphere but not too over the top and I have never been a person who wears too much make-up.. no fake lashes or hair or any work done..
So the situation I keep finding myself in is.. Where men have left me to pay thier drinks.. These are men that are strangers that I have had a friendly conversation with while waiting to order or recieve my drink. There is no proposition that I am paying or that they are. They get their drink and then tell the bartender I will take care of their bill.
Why does this keep happening? Am I ugly? Am I pretty? Are they just looking to scam someone? Is this a revenge on women because of some other girl? I am so confused..
