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There is woman who is doing yoga and pole dance on instagram. I saw some saved videos of her in my boyfriend's phone and some yoga poses photos where her booty seems very nice. What does it mean. I even don't want to ask him. I saw that things unsecretly he even didn't hide them in his gallery.
Discovering that your boyfriend has saved pictures of someone else can definitely stir up a lot of feelings. It’s natural to feel a bit unsettled or unsure about what it means. Here are a couple of angles to consider:
Interest in the Activity: Sometimes people save images or videos as inspiration or because they have an interest in the activity itself. If he's into fitness, yoga, or pole dancing, he might just be looking at these from a purely athletic or inspirational standpoint.
Aesthetic Appreciation: It’s not uncommon for people to appreciate the aesthetic of a well-trained body or a particularly impressive pose, without it necessarily meaning anything more.
Attraction: Of course, there’s also the possibility that he finds the person attractive. This isn’t necessarily a red flag—attraction to others is normal and doesn't automatically mean he values your relationship any less.
Since it's bothering you and it's out in the open (not hidden away), it might be worth bringing it up gently. You could express that you came across the photos and were wondering about his interest in them.
It means he finds that girl to be very attractive and he enjoys looking at her , and it could mean he is secretly chatting with her as well. Most guys’ are very visual when it comes to seeing a beautiful girl that catches his eyes. So the fact that he is in a relationship with you , and he is doing this behind your back? , is sadly a Red Flag to the relationship he has with you. Whether he is acting on it or not , it’s still disrespectful that he is secretly saving this girls’ pictures and videos on his phone. How would he feel if he found pictures of other guys’ on your phone? Most guys’ are stupid when it comes to stuff like this, especially if they are already in a relationship with someone. This is shit that single guys’ do when they are single and available , so It’s an indication that he really doesn’t value you or respect you , you are sadly just a convenience to him , because if you were his priority? He wouldn’t be doing anything to disrespect the relationship he has with you. So you have every right to feel hurt and upset that he is doing this behind your back. For the fact that he is saving this girls’ pictures to his phone , it’s one thing for a guy to look at a beautiful girl for a second or two , but to save her pictures to his phone is a red flag. So you have every right to dump his ass over this , especially if you aren’t doing this sort of thing to him behind his back. If you confront him on it? He is more than likely going to try to sugarcoat his reasons behind it , as much as possible , because he knows it’s disrespectful on his part. When partners’ are caught red handed with doing things like this behind their partners’ backs , they say whatever they can say to make it seem like they are innocent , instead of admitting that they are wrong period , it’s a clear indication that they are a selfish person that only really cares about themselves , they don’t know how to give to their partner, the same way they want to receive from their partner, it’s their way or no way Sadly girls’ can be selfish as well when it comes to shit like this. My advice to you is to dump him and realize you deserve better than this shit , especially if you want to have a long lasting happy loving relationship with someone , that respects you the same way you respect them , if you decide to give your boyfriend another chance? It will just be a matter of time before he does this shit to you again , so since you caught him red handed already , and have the proof , the ball is in your court and you can decide to move on from him , or give him another chance , that is up to you? If I was in your shoes? I wouldn’t give her another chance because there is no excuse for this kind of selfish behavior , So honestly , he doesn’t deserve you, if you clearly don’t do this kind of shit behind his back as well. Don’t have Sucker written on your Head by forgiving him for this selfish behavior. Do not tell him you found those pictures on his phone either , because he will try to accuse you of not trusting him , by you going through his phone and he will try to act like he is a victim , when really he is the piece of shit. Why I feel cell phones and social media damaged the foundations of relationships, Mainly because we carry around these devices that we can all be secretive and selfish on behind our partners’ backs. When someone truly loves you , they don’t do shit like this to you ,
In today's world, pics on a phone... literally cannot read too much into that. I mean that's the first thing a lot of women I date do, they send pics and take pics. Then your phone auto backups everything to the cloud, then even if you deleted the original pics, they come back around on the memory wheel.
Highlights from last years at this time, Opps that's a titty pic, thought I deleted that.
I might want to delete that before it causes me heart ache with some women, because shit happens and now she is all upset about it. But at the same time, the way women send out booty pics these days, guys save them like baseball cards and apparently women like that or they don't... but they keep sending you pics and I can't say it was not a good memory.
Sorry I knew people before I started dating you, and she was cute with nice tits, and I save the picture because it was a good memory. Even when that relationship ended and it is forever over, she was still cute and she had nice tits and that one day, was a good day for me. If it is that big of a problem for you, then ask me to delete it and move with things. No need to make any drama over it.
Honestly, even if it wasn't on his phone… your guy is a man with eyeballs, right? They catch glimpses of things all day long that make them think of random sexual thoughts. They don't attach every single one of them to an emotional connection the way women do… they just don't.
Baring any mistaken notion that your guy is an obsessed perv (which I don't think he is), he's just watching the thing on instagram, right? He's saved it? So what? You'll thank the woman in the video on the nights that your guy hits the spank bank when you're too tired to be frisky with him.
Next, don't get on his case every single time you do see a pic because you may possibly be fueling a fire for infidelity that wasn't there at all. Nagging doesn't look good on anyone.
Regardless of what the gag men say, if he’s actually SAVING pictures and videos of another woman in his phone, that’s a problem & disrespectful AF. There’s a difference between “just looking” and saving pics & videos.
Definitely bring it up. If I had saved pics of other men my boyfriend would throw a fit.
Navigating the modern landscape of love and trust, huh? Let's break it down. Your man having pictures of another woman showing off her assets might raise an eyebrow. It's one thing to appreciate fitness inspiration, but if those pics feel more 😏 than 🏋️, we're dipping into sketchy territory. Talk to him! Communication is the pillar of a relationship. Maybe he's clueless about how it's coming off, or perhaps there's more to unpack. Either way, clearing the air is key. And remember, it's all about how you feel in this relationship. Keep an eye out for red flags but also ensure your insecurities aren't clouding the judgement. Let's keep the loveboat sailing smoothly!
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He probably looks at the pictures/videos while he pets his snake, spanks the monkey, chokes the chicken, or bopping the weasel. Just be glad he doesn't do it in front of you.
I prefer midget clowns 🤡
It means he is fantasizing about her and wants her. Bad. Probably obsessed … just ask him. I don't know 🤷♀️
She is agtrzctivexand he likes to look st her. Nothing wrong with just looking.
My perspective? It means absolutely nothing. He just finds her, or something about the pose, her style, or a feature of hers, attractive. My grandpa had pinups he got back in WWII pinned up in the garage above his tool bench. My uncles had a dozen Playboy magazines under a table in their office. I grew up and every boy in my high school counted the days until the Sports Illustrated swimsuit edition came out. (Man, they sure killed their relevance by going woke on that one!) Half the men on my team, including proudly faithful family men, have some hot celebrity or influencer crush but instead of pinning her pic on her wall they like her images or save them on a device. It’s always been this way. It always will be.
Seriously - don’t over think it.
It could either mean he enjoys yoga or enjoys watching that girl’s booty. It’s common for men to fantasies about other random women, whether it being social media figures, celebrities or pornstars. There is no harm in it, unless you are offended by it where hence open communication can help.
That’s mad disrespectful and odd behaviors… he’s better off single cuz that’s what single people do, not good and committed s/o. I’m sure guys would flip out if their women saved pics of another man (esp who’s just another human that you can meet anywhere that’s not even a celebrity).
I've absolutely no idea why men like photos of girls doing yoga. Perhaps he's feeling a little stiff and looking for exercises to release the built up tension
It means that's his ideal kind of girl. It doesn't mean he's obsessed or likes her specifically. He doesn't know anything about her. But he finds yoga and pole dancing to be attractive activities a girl can do. If you get into those, he'll be even more attracted to you
Most people here will tell you it's not weird, but it's weird
So what , there is a picture of a girl with a nice ass in his phone. The equivalent of checking a girl out walking down the street it means almost nothing … move on
I think men just do this, they are very weird creatures but honestly I'll also search up pictures of men I think look good and just look at them. I don't think you should overthink it.
It means you also need to workout. I would get a bigger booty and dress sexy and see if he has the same reaction
As you said her booty seems nice that could be a reason he saved it.
She might be an influencer I mean it doesn't mean anything possibly if he doesn't know her just like lusting over a celebrity and their body that's all it might be
If you are already digging for dirt on his phone it's only a matter of time before it's over.
And now an answer from a real person... why don't you ask him what it means?
Stop looking at his phone
If it bothered me I would ask as soon as I saw it. I wouldn't keep it to myself.
It means he has eyes for other women. He isn't loyal.
It means, he saved a picture of another girl.
It means he finds her physically attractive and when he feels horny he wants to look at her bc he's turned on by her
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