Is it true monogamy is only for men that can't get multiple women?

[Vegasrunner]

[molonski2]

It can be that for sure..

But , it can also be " I dont want that life anymore " , the life of many many women is generally speaking also involving some kind of excess ( not always but mostly ) parties , drink , party drugs , multiple associations , and while its exciting there are obvious downsides also..

Thats if you are really going to have lots of fun and many many women , so there does come a time , and an age when monogamy really makes sense , now is that time in your early 20s , honestly probably not.

Now , you may well go for years with 2/3 Gfs , or friends with benefits and that can be okey , but these scenarios tend to get emotional , and become rather similar over time , the entire situation is often even far more complex than I've described , thats when monogamy kicks in along the lines of , " Now , this is far better for me , and I have an absolute vital connection " , thats the joy of monogamy.

[liggang]

I don't really want multiple women personally. I did in my past. I wanted to be able to have multiple women and when I finally learned how to do it, I didn't want it anymore.

I guess for me it was always most important to know that I could do it. Why? I don't know but now I can feel rest assured. I felt like any man who isn't capable of having multiple women is basically the kind of man no women want. At least no beautiful women.

I'd rather find a beautiful wife to love and have kids with. That's what I truly want at the end of the day.

But she's got to look good.

[Anonn345]

No monogamy is for guys who want to have monogamous relationships no matter their attractiveness. There are guys out there who know that they are very attractive and doesn't care about having multiple women and there are also guys out there who are not that attractive and jump from girl to girl whenever they have a chance in order to feel attractive and wanted. It truly depends on what type of person you are tbh.

[Kelley1]

Basically that is how it is. It is easy for hot guys and almost impossible for ugly guys because women would rather share a hot guy with other women than to have 100% of an ugly gu6.

[Finchie40]

No monogamy is finally slowing down from getting
Multiple people

[Vegasrunner]

@Finchie40 Then why do the men who get multiple women ne ef slow down?

[Finchie40]

I can’t speak for everyone , but someone that is focused on landing multiple people is an attention seeker , they are only attracted to the attention they receive from other people , basically boosting their own Ego , they don’t know how to love , they only care about the attention they receive from others and what they feel is best for themselves , body count is important to them , they feel like they are being awarded a trophy from all The attention they receive , it mainly stems down to having a selfish mindset not realizing they are gaining a reputation of not being trusted , once someone realizes the reputation they are getting , that’s usually when they will decide to settle down with just one person if they don’t want that reputation anymore

[Vegasrunner]

@Finchie40 Such an interesting comment. You say you "can't speak for everyone" then proceed to speak for everyone and in the process mistaking attribute your personal values onto the majority? Finally your conclusion is confusing are you making the argument that people should live their lives based on the judgement of others?

[Finchie40]

Not at all anyone can choose how they want to live their life , I am just saying in general from experiences and things I have witnessed , the outcome of what usually occurs when someone plays the field

[Vegasrunner]

@Finchie40 How does that relate to the original question?

[Finchie40]

It doesn’t , I was just answering your question about why I look at things that way , I am just giving advice based off of my own personal experiences and things I have witnessed through the years. Like I said , I can’t speak for everyone , I was just giving advice

[Vegasrunner]

@Finchie40 I see your confusion. You're answering a question I never asked, and non of the ones I did, while ignoring the contradictory evidence staring you in the face. That's probably why you're avoiding the question, because when actually pressed about it, you realize that most men w/ options reject monogamy. The fact that you don't would only be relevant of you actually had options.

[Finchie40]

I am not confused , I am just not against monogamy and believe 2 people can meet and fall in love with each other and stay loyal and faithful to each other , I agree it seems harder to find these days , I blame social media for being a big part of that reason that most people have a harder time trusting each other because of all the nonsense they hear about that everyone is a cheater blah blah blah. Most people have a hard time resisting temptations , when they have the opportunity. Sadly not resisting temptations is selfish mindset , basically you want your cake and you want to eat it to. You can choose to live that way , but don’t be surprised when it eventually catches up to you and smacks ya in the face. Me personally isn’t going to commit to a girl that is screwing multiple guys’ and Inam sure she wouldn’t commit to me if I was screwing other girls’ so for a relationship to work and for it to survive, you both need to be on the same page with things or it’s not going to last the long haul

[Vegasrunner]

@Finchie40 Do you understand that your statement only goes to validate mine? One could easily point out that you belief stems from the fact that you are unable to attract multiple women, which makes it easier for you to believe in monogamy because you don't have another choice.

[Finchie40]

Not the case at all , I just prefer one on one relationships

[Vegasrunner]

@Finchie40 Of course you do which is why the correlation is made vs you and men with the ability to attract more women.

[avery58]

It's for everyone who wants a mutually exclusive relationship with their partner. If they don't like thid arrangement, they can seek an open relationship from both ends with someone who is comfortable with that.

[OtterMan68]

no, monogamy is for men mature enough, stable enough, and loyal enough to stay with one woman.

[Vegasrunner]

@OtterMan68 So why isn't it practiced by the most powerful and successful men in the world?

[OtterMan68]

Power corrupts

[Vegasrunner]

@OtterMan68 Why isn't it practiced by any man able to show the ability to get multiple women?

[strateguy632]

impossible, for them no need for a law. the law was for people who can... but it is immoral.

any guy can can find a few but the issue is "not adding the second before breaking up with the previous.".

[sawno]

No, monogamy offers a layer of love I don't think I can achieve when I have to divide my love between multiple women.

[laly520]

nope

thats not true

monogamy is simply for men who r able to commit to one woman

[Vegasrunner]

@laly520 Then why is it that men that can get multiple woman never practice monogamy?

[laly520]

cuz simply they dont want to commit to only one woman n they got used to the lifestyle when they could mess around with many women, it got nothing to do with whether they could get multiple women or not, lot of guys can't get any women so they pay for it, its irrelevant

[Vegasrunner]

@laly520 Doesn't that just prove that only men that can't get multiple women believe in monogamy?

[laly520]

not at all

[Vegasrunner]

@laly520 Please Eloborate. If you're making the claim that a lot of guys can't get any women, then that only strengthens the original argument.

[JacobJordan]

No. I could quite easily have multiple women and I would sooner die than do that. I like having 1 woman

[Vegasrunner]

@jacobjordan So you think it's easier for am mam to get multiple women?

[JacobJordan]

I didn't say it would be easier. You asked if monogamy was for men that can't get multiple women. I am saying i could quite easily but i choose to be with my wife over anyone else.

[Vegasrunner]

@jacobjordan You do understand that your statement only proves my point? Perhaps you could get multiple women but you haven't. How many women have you had sex with in your life?

[JacobJordan]

1. I am old fashioned. I think intimacy is something special and sacred only meant to be performed between 2 parties that intend to remain together until death. Your question specifically pertains to the "get" or ability to obtain more than one woman not whether one wants or chooses to do that. As such Monogomy is not limited to people who can't get another woman. It is a choice that each person makes. Same with being with 1 or more women. Also a choice. Did you misunderstand your own question... "Is it true monogamy is only for men that can't get multiple women?" Your question. My answer saying no it is not true as I could get another woman or multiple easily but choose not to because I don't want more than 1 woman. That doesn't prove your point lol

[Vegasrunner]

@jacobjordan You actually prove it to a T. You're making the argument that the answer to the original question is no because you hypothetically could have multiple women, however you've never been able to actually accomplish that. The reason why you've failed isn't as relevant as the fact that u failed. Consequently U BELIEVE IN MANOGOMY lol. My argument is of course u believe in Manogamy because you've never been w/ multiple women.

[JacobJordan]

Yeah you definitely don't understand your own question. Your question for the last time implies that for the statement to be true one must not be able to get a second or 3rd woman. It has nothing to do with actually obtaining it just the ability to obtain it and factually I could obtain it. I am quite well off, I have enough properties I have no interest in doing so because I like the emotional connection I have with ONE I wouldn't want to diminish that by splitting that emotional connection to 2 or more women. Which is a choice not a lack of ability. If you meant something different you should have phrased your question properly. Your failure to properly phrase your question is not everyone else's fault.

[Vegasrunner]

@jacobjordan Sounds like your first mistake is your lack of understanding of the question. I'm not "implying" anything. I'm asking a direct question, while seeking evidence to either confirm or contradict the original statement. You making the claim that you could get multiple girls is not supported by any evidence. In fact the only evidence we have is that you don't have multiple girls, which based on tje question validates that only men like you who can't get multiple women believe in Manogamy. Hope that clears your confusion.

[JacobJordan]

Yes and your direct question is whether or not it is true that monogamy is only for men that CAN'T get multiple women?
The definition of the contraction can't is: to be unable. Which written into your question as a replacement for can't would be "is it true that monogamy is only for men that are unable to get multiple women?"
This means one must lack the ability to to get multiple women. Due to your usage of the contraction can't. Vast majority of men do not lack the ability to get multiple women. Therefore your question is in fact false. Again you misunderstood your own question because you don't understand the words you are using. The only evidence one needs to prove your question false is whether or not they have the ability to get multiple women. Not whether or not they HAVE multiple women or WANT multiple women. If you are going to ask a question ask it properly as then you might save yourself the embarrassment of being found incapable of understanding a simple contraction. In fact "I'm asking a direct question, while seeking evidence to either confirm or contradict the original statement." You are indeed asking a direct question and that question is whether not there is truth to your theory that only those who are unable to get multiple women (or as you put it "can't get multiple women) support monogamy. To which the evidence to prove it false is as simple as "I have the ability to get multiple women" or "I can get multiple women" or "I am able to get multiple women" if you would like to update your question to better reflect the answer you seem to be seeking I would advise avoiding contractions as contractions are concrete in their meaning. Good luck

[Vegasrunner]

@jacobjordan Correct and in you we have a man that lacks the ability to get multiple women. We know this because you don't have multiple women, have you had multiple women at any point in your life?

[JacobJordan]

Every human on earth has the ability to get multiple women 🤣🤣🤣 all they need is to be able to talk to them. Good grief you are dense

[Vegasrunner]

@jacobjordan Are you aware that only 40% of all men in the history of the world have procreated? You're making a baseless statement based on how you feel.

[JacobJordan]

Procreation and the ability to get a woman are not remotely correlated. How are still trying to argue this lol. Your question once again was about the ability to get multiple women. Not about one's ability to remain with said women, procreate with said women or anything other than obtaining said women. So factually speaking everyone has the ability to obtain multiple women. Whether or not they are successful or exercise that ability does not change the fact they CAN. Which was your question

[Vegasrunner]

@jacobjordan Lol, try to tell that to the 60% of men that never procreate. I don't think it's much of an argument. You're attempting to say that you could hypothetically get multiple women however you don't have them in real life. To my point you would literally fall into the category of a guy incapable of getting multiple women wanting monogamy. If you wanted to disprove this point, either you yourself would have to attract multiple women, or provide a real world example of a man refusing to have sex w/ multiple women because he wants monogamy. Do you have any examples like that?

[JacobJordan]

You were the one that phrased your question poorly man. I am the real world example of a man refusing to have sex w/ multiple women because I want monogamy. I am decently good looking and wealthy so women approach me quite regularly I am married so I tell them I am married and would like to be left alone. Not to mention I am an American man in Europe which gets me more attention. I am very happy with the one woman (my wife) and see no reason to change that.

[Vegasrunner]

@jacobjordan Lol, You wouldn't be the example because you don't have multiple women.

[JacobJordan]

I don't need multiple women per your own words. "provide a real world example of a man refusing to have sex w/ multiple women because he wants monogamy" I have provided that. I told you from the beginning you were wrong but you couldn't accept it. Ciao.

[Vegasrunner]

@jacobjordan I see your confusion. Since you haven't attracted multiple women, you would be an example of, a man unable to attract multiple women that believes in moogamy

[JacobJordan]

Lol I attract multiple women regularly I choose to remain married to 1 because I prefer spending time and attention on 1 woman. You would understand this if you were in a relationship that was healthy. And once again your question had nothing to do with HAVING and everything to do with the ability to obtain. I know you are struggling to understand this so worry not I'll keep repeating it.

[Vegasrunner]

@jacobjordan Why do you believe you attract multiple women?

[JacobJordan]

Because I have eyes and a brain and can see and process information. It happens quite regularly and my wife tells me even though I have no interest.

[Vegasrunner]

@jacobjordan Lol, of course your wife is going to tell you that. Every woman wants ri believe that her man is desires by other women yet only wants her. The fact that u believe this is a good example only highlights my point. If you had actual experience w/ women you would understand why that's not a sound statement for you to make

[JacobJordan]

Oh you poor sad little man. No buddy the reason she tells me is because I have romantic radar of the blind. Unless a woman flat out told me I would assume she is being nice. As a result I am polite and respectful which unintentionally has led a few women to think there was something. Hence why my wife has to inform me that they are in fact interested so I don't do that.

[Vegasrunner]

@jacobjordan Lol, brah. The fact that you're actually writing this is hilarious. Why don't you do this post on GAG asking how many women are married to a man no one else wants and track the results. You actually have made my point stronger. How many women have you had sex with in your life?

[JacobJordan]

The fact you are desperately arguing this because I told you that you're wrong is astounding just give up boy you are wrong because you can't even formulate the sentence properly and you aren't smart enough to realize it.

[Vegasrunner]

@jacobjordan I realize you have avoided an answer to the question which once again only validates my point. TY for sharing this.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. Monogamy is for people that are serious about love.

Many men can get multiple women if they serious want to do it, it just won't be high quality nor pretty women.

[DrPepper12]

No!!! Monogamy is a recent artificial social construct so men could bequeath property and fixed assets to legitimate heirs once we settled down to farm after being nomadic.

[BeetleBro2000]

No. Monogamy is for men that don't want to get multiple partners.

[Thworsh]

The idea of being loyal to one woman who is also loyal to me is much more attractive and valuable than monogamy, not to mention the Bible forbids it for a reason, and that reason is called Hell.

[sawno]

I don't think your sentence is quite right because you're describing monogamy. I assume you meant to write polygamy rather than monogamy.

[Thworsh]

@sawno Yeah my bad! Wish I could fix it...

[Thworsh]

@sawno you're right, I conflated the two meanings!

[strateguy632]

well as a pro monogamy i still admit monogamy was prescribed to church leaders. have one wife.
zero or more... can't be a church leader is the consequence. but implied permitted many within marriage to the followers.
according to bible how many wives did moses n jacob have!

[WhiteBoyChill]

No, the concept has been around for thousands of years, practiced by people of every attraction level. Including the rich and powerful in western societies

[handsomelad70]

Another girlfriend.(A true girlfriend, that is.)

[Pohjolan]

Its also for men who don't like extra drama.

[Fireguy17]

nope, not at all.

[Unit1]

I doubt that really makes much sense

[onedarkcloud]

No, I just loved my wife and respected her.

[soe11]

Monogamy is a option for both gender.

[Twalli]

No. I am not trying to find anyone ekae.

[jshm2]

No. Don't be silly.

[FuqUFggt]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

No doubt it