Are you ugly or unattractive if women don’t flirt or if you've hardly dated?

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I have started to think I’m repulsive because no women ever show romantic interest in me also I have hardly dated in my life I have only had 1 girlfriend

MichikoMyne · Accepted Answer

You’re in a predicament that my cousin is in. He just got his heart broken by this young 21 yo with 1 kid. Mind you he has no kids and SHE was his first girlfriend. He was shattered after that. Whenever he would have a date with a women he would always pick at himself as to why he wouldn’t get picked. Now my cousin is 30 . He doesn’t quite well. He dresses very basic he doesn’t like drinking water. His teeth are overcrowded top and bottom. His skin isn’t all two grade since he really doesn’t have its skin care he just use soap and water.

I’m going to give you a really big tip and insight into a women’s mind.
This is what ALL. Women. Want.
What they are looking for in a man.

Your looks hygiene, how you dress, and how you approach an interact with the woman. Your confidence and charm.
Depending on the certain type of woman, she’s going to want a certain type of man. But ALL women like men with nice teeth a fit body, healthy lifestyle, nice hair. If you’re not taking care of yourself. Money and having a good heart isn’t going to cut it. Unless you are willing to settle for less. Because there is ALWAYS going to be someone out there that wants you. But a lot of times you might not find them attractive. This is why I say investing in your looks and health is very important. My mom is 40 with a man 10 years younger than her and my guy friends always try to hit on her because she’s always taken care of how she looks and her body etc. Get confident, don’t be afraid of rejection. It’s life and it’s billions of people out there! You got this and good luck!

Boomchakalaca · Accepted Answer

The sad truth is yes, u may not be decent looking when u hardly dated anyone or had people crush on u. That is a status only attractive men can achieve or men with money

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Maybe you don't approach well. In terms of understanding them, how to seduce, flirt, and talk. Or maybe the time or place.

Have you always tried the same methods? If yes, then obviously you'll be getting the same results.

Girls are generally responsive, and at least courteous. So getting nothing means you're not doing things right.

Learning more about the topic makes a huge difference. Start with how to do eye contact with girls. Easy to do, with truly unbelievable results.
There was one page on Reddit, under Seduction sub-reddit. One of the truest eye contact articles.
Then also how to approach, what to talk about... etc.

There's also the whole scope of flirting on social media, of which I don't know.
But utilize it. I can seduce via text, just bring a topic. Not Instagram or Facebook for example.
At least I know my weaks and strengths and where I know and where I don't.

Same for you 🫴🏼

Honest-Matt · Accepted Answer

I have and can be very attractive, but it all hinges on how approachable I am from the outside looking in. I got a pretty intense, sometimes unfriendly natural appearance, a scary biker that screams "don't talk to me". I could go to the gym, trim myself up, tidy my wardrobe and lighten my facial expressions to put more people at ease when I or they approach. You'd be surprised how much looking nice and sharp really puts people in a better position. You can be smooth and witty, but you can also be a bumbling idiot who's thoughtful and sweet when you flirt or ask women out, it's endearing for some women actually. But you have to have some game and some poise by shaking the anxious nerves. The only way to do that is to fail before you can win.

Avicenna · Answer

No, not necessarily. by the way, a lot of women will find you attractive and never say a thing to you.

RingOfFire · Answer

Not necessarily. I'm speaking from a perspective of someone who always had good luck with the ladies. What I have seen in some other guys is not that they are ugly, or have anything seriously wrong with them, but that they don't understand the way women think and what interests and attracts them. There is a world of difference in how you behave around women. One way that seems perfectly natural to you as a guy can be a complete turnoff for a girl.

It's not an easily acquired skill but on the other hand it's not rocket science either. Womens' perspective on relationships is different from mens'. You need to appreciate that concept and adopt the changes if you are interested in relationships. It is definitely not a matter of being ugly or hopeless... it's a skill you can learn.

bobalife · Answer

Not necessarily… I remember in college there was a guy I met who I didn’t find attractive in any way; however, the more I talk and hang out with him… he became that more attractive in my eyes. I think other girls also thought the same because they also liked him. He had a really good personality and flirting game. Maybe try to build more confidence and your interpersonal skills.

Pookie2626262 · Answer

Not necessarily I mean are you going out and meeting people? Or are you just Staying at home and only time you go out is work if thats true then your problem isn’t no girls finds you attractive it’s your not meeting people go outside go to activities that has your interest you will meet girls that have the same interest as you

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

No it doesn’t mean that. Most guys go unnoticed by women. Chances are, you look statistically average like the majority of us.

I honestly wouldn’t sweat it. Just enjoy life and if a woman comes along the way, so be it.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Don't sweat it man, women delusionally Believe that EIGHTY PERCENT of men are unattractive. The top eighty percent of women are busy chasing the top 5% of men. Women have clearly lost their minds.

SotiCoto · Answer

Women are, Men do.  If women aren't interested in you, it probably isn't what you are that is the problem, but what you're doing... or not doing.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Gettinv closer to my 30 and never had a girlfriend, only failed online approaches. As a shy introvert I'd say I'm undatable as well. At least you even had one

LiamJHayden · Answer

Not necessarily, nor are you automatically aesthetically attractive if you have dated a lot. I'm fit, 6'2, but average looking at best. I do not have much trouble getting dates.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Maybe you need to be more confident. Flirt with them and they will flirt back.

Anonymous · Answer

Not always. A lot of the time people have bad personalities.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

No. That doesn't necessarily mean you're ugly.

82lynx · Answer

As far as I’m concerned, if they won’t put in any effort, fudge ‘em.

Anonymous · Answer

Regardless of how you look. Women will only show romantic interest with the guys that know how to generate this interest / attraction.

Vegasrunner · Answer

You may be but looks are only a small component of attraction for women. How much money do you make?

Anonymous · Answer

Do you approach/ask women out? Most women aren't going to do the approaching. And women might have "flirted" with you in their head, but women think they're being obvious when in reality the guy had no idea she was flirting.

RossyBoi · Answer

Women nowadays don't want relationships they just want friendship, so focus on making female friends.

VV3ZZY123 · Answer

Naa they're just mean girls. Do u really want to be with a mean girl who only cares about herself?

scott04sa22 · Answer

Your not alone. I have 2 ex-girlfriends now. Every day I still learn about women

elaphe · Answer

It isn't just appearance. Maybe you seem less approachable due to personality.

Lynx122 · Answer

No that's the experience of most guys.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

I'm happy as I look above 😊😊😊✌🏻🤭🤭👀👀

Unit1 · Answer

The results are telling.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Not necessarily. What do you do to sell yourself?

impalabill77 · Answer

I don't think so. Some women are superficial.

justabuddy · Answer

Sadly... this is more common than you think.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Not necessarily.

Anonymous · Answer

Are you shy or have a RBF?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. I am ugly. No one wants to talk to me.

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