Hi, was my guy friend flirting with me?

[Anonymous]

Hi! I have this close guy friend I started off as coworkers with we still work together but we’re both planning to quit soon. He’s called me pretty multiple times. He got a stick shift car and was showing it off to me, I was playing w the shifter while the car was parked kind of admiring it and he put his hand on mine on top of the shifter and was like let your hand limp and guided me through the gears. Was he doing this purely to show me the shifts or was he trying to touch me? Also we had talked about drinking and consent randomly it came up cus we began talking about alcohol and he was saying he thinks if a guy invites a girl over late to drink it’s a clear sign sex is on the table but he said how men have to be super careful about consent now and how a girl who’s intoxicated can’t really consent, I had recently slept over at his house when he had the house to himself with us intending intending to drink and he didn’t try anything but I’m pretty sure when he was talking about the drinking consent thing he wanted to see what I thought? He’s super shy

[OlderAndWiser]

So do you want to encourage him?

[Avicenna]

He's interested in you all right

[CVNT5]

bro he called you pretty,

guys don't call girls pretty unless they are gay-af.

also he made the effort to place his hand over yours, he wants to hold your hand. he has feelings for you or he just extra horny and he is fueling his sexual desires and fantasy.

in this case the homie checks out.

my boy wants to clap yo cheeks
he wants to make you his.
he wants to do that:
PLAP!💢💦💕😭
PLAP!💢💦💕😭
PLAP!💢💦💕😭
PLAP!💢💦💕😭
PLAP!💢💦💕😭
GET PREGNANT!
GET PREGNANT!
GET PREGNANT!

with you.

if you like him, tell him.
but make sure he wants you as his wife not just as a sex doll he gonna discard later

make sure he wants to make you his woman.
not just some random chick he hooked up with.

you don't want your feelings hurt and feel like you were used and abused.

[Drew-1990]

I would say he is interested. If I tell a girl she is pretty especially since I'm super shy myself I'm definitely into her. I think when he told you about the drinking thing he was hoping you would make the move to show you consent to it.

[2_beHappy]

He is surely trying to flirt with you, but do you even like him? If so, then you can make more moves to show him.

[legman528]

in my opinion, he was flirting with you and wants to be more than friends.

[Anonymous]

Yes, and a creepy flirt at that. I would stay well clear of him.

[spartan55]

Sit on his lap next time you see him.

[strateguy632]

he is hinting that you are very attractive

[Anonymous]

Yes :)