I'm probably overthinking this but my crush has been texting me every day for hours for the last couple of months. Today he hasn't said anything all day but i've seen him online on instagram for a few hours today so i'm sure he's not that busy?
Were you the last person to text, or was he? If you're partway through a conversation and he's left it and not replied, then chances are he doesn't want to talk to you right now. Just leave it and wait for him to reply in his own time, don't double text or it'll make you look desperate and a lot of guys (myself included) will lose interest if a girl seems desperate or needy.
If he was the last person to text then just hit him up. Don't say anything boring like "hey" or "what's up". Think of an interesting topic that will initiate conversation and make him interested in texting you.
Also, I know you probably get this a lot, but he's been messaging you for hours every day for the past couple of months... and you haven't expressed your feelings towards him yet? A guy won't chat with a girl for that long if he doesn't have some feelings towards her, so you don't have to wait for him to make the move just make it yourself. If a girl made her move on me, as long as she didn't come across as being too overwhelming and obsessed/needy, then I'd really appreciate the confidence and honesty and it'd find her more attractive.
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He's a fboy. Next time u see him... go up, tilt ur head over, put on a flirty face, really cute and look right into his face. If he looks kinda unsure and goes uhhh or ends up😲😲😲? He's a total fkboy.
If you have already sent a bunch of messages, then let it be. Let him eventually message you. If you have not send a bunch of msgs yet, sent another one just asking "what's up buttercup". LOL
he is not busy he does not want to talk to u
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It happens haha, it really truly does happen. Wait on the Lord, but guard your heart Provers 4 vs 23
Maybe he ran out of things to talk about for the time being and or he rather talk to you in person and doesn't know if it's going that far.
Well my experience. Yes you should be. When he first see you is he smiling?
Dudes smart he's got u hooked like a addiction
When the conversation is getting shorter with you, its getting longer with someone else.
Have you said anything at all?
He found a new toy. Worry? No. Find another.
What is the true nature of the relationship?
Don't worry.
He’s moved on
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