Boyfriend hasn't texted me all day, should I be worried?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I usually message at least once a day when we dont see eachother just to check in and see how eachothers day was. My boyfriend went away for the weekend and hasn't msssaged me at all since yestersay afternoon and its now 9pm at night. Should I be worried? His been online but no message :( usually he will say hey or just let me know how his days been. I dont want to worry but do you think i should? His with his mate. Should i just let it go?

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Im worried that he could be with girls with his friend cos his mate is a cheater

[Anonymous]

Don't text first!!!
You're a woman, don't let him have this huge power on you. Sometimes men are a little retarded when are in group with friends. Untile 25/26, then they mature and understand.
So my suggestion is: Go out with your friends, share snaps of you hanging out with your friends (even if it's just for a coffee) so he knows that you're living your life even without him. Don't go partying or share snaps with other guys or he'll think that you're doing this on purpose and could get mad.
Show him that you have your shits together and D O N T T E X T H I M first ;)
He'll text you eventually but show him that he has his spaces and you're not clingy/crazy.

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice girl!! I went out with my friend before but didn't take snaps :( :(

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome, just give him a taste of his own medicine ;)

[MrNameless]

Moronic advice.

Absolutely nothing wrong with texting first. You have no fucking clue how often it pisses guys off if you always make them initiate every conversation. I've left girls because of that and it makes you sound you aren't even interested.

I wish people wold grow the fuck and up and be adults and stop treating a relationships and dating like a game. No minimum 3 day bullshit rule, or who should text or pay first. Open communication.

That being said, your boyfriend is probably busy. And again, it doesn't hurt texting at all. Stop thinking about this texting first game nonsense.

[Kit_Kat88]

@MrNameless I agree. I hate mind games. Both genders should text or call when they feel like it.

[mooky06]

I would just leave one message saying "I hope you got back home safely. Have fun with your mates, I'll talk to when you can :)"

I understand that anxious worried feeling. I use to feel like that too, but don't worry so much about it, sometimes all of that worrying is not for anything. The solution is often always minor. He'll message you soon enough.

[mysterystar2]

Don't text him get on with ur own life. Sure if you feel he would be happy with you texting first. But I wouldn't waste your time in the moment waiting for a text off him I'm sure he isn't waiting for one off you , ask yourself has he the one to be always to text you first? Then why the change?

[Anonymous]

Yes let it go. If you can't go a day without talking you have issues lol. He's away with a friend. Don't take it personally. I'm sure he'll be in touch soon.

[scooogy]

If i had a girl, i wouldn't want to bother her that much, i'd give her room for herself

[NatashaJ]

Are you sure you two dating seems like you only think that jk ha, if anything he having a orgy nothing to worry about.

[Casstiel]

Yeah you should be worried, call FBI CIA FIB and the rest of them this is a multinational problem.

[taylorG]

Maybe he's enjoying time away from everything, and just living in the moment. If you're so worried, text him and ask him how everything is going.

[lostgirl_searching]

Don't worry about it, he's probably just having fun and enjoying himself. He will text or call you soon.

[Luvme66]

He might be busy or stressed out a bit... don't worry... if these thing repeats more than thrice just confront him...

[jman46241]

Yeah, just wait a little bit.. I'm sure he will text you soon.

[Ttp1234]

He's away and probably really busy with family or friends and doesn't want to be antisocial by being on his phone. Let it go and once his finished his trip see if he messages you again. Don't act restricting and forceful of him.

[candi12]

I'm in the same situation although he's a friends with benefits... I'm annoyed he hasn't responded

[HighBlueSky]

Maybe he's just enjoying his own space. It doesn't mean he doesn't like you.

[Anonymous]

this kind of dependence and control seems psychotic to me... .

[Anonymous]

Message him. He's your boyfriend, and he should keep in touch with you because that's how relationships work. Don't worry too much though, there could be a good reason.

[Chanel1981]

How long have you been together?

[Anonymous]

And this is the reason I don't do relationships..

[zombiebabe]

he has ghosted sorry

[Anonymous]

Did you text him instead of waiting?

[Anonymous]

Nah, go shopping