Why does a guy become softly spoken around a girl?

Question

So why does a guy speaker softer (low voice, almost a whisper and soft) to a 'particular' girl? Don't guys always aim to look manlier in front of a girl?

AmanoYin · Accepted Answer

Yes guys are robots and always follow certain things. Unlike women who feel emotion, guys are incapable of finding someone so attractive that their thoughts start to spiral into worry or shyness.. guys always transform into some super entity called "a man"

if you want to know how guys feel at any time of day...

learn about yourself first..

when this is done put yourself in that other person's shoes, ignore what society has told you, society doesn't know each individual, ignore stereotypes of how a person should be, a person SHOULD BE themselves..

put yourself in their shoes and say "how would i feel if i attracted to someone, is it possible that certain events in life or states of mind would make me suddenly soft spoken around someone"

tadah... you're not a master who simple using empathy and intuition and obvious signs to see what a person is likely to be going through.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Because he's too shy and nervous to admit he wants you.

TheMoroccangirl · Accepted Answer

Men tend to lower their voices around the girl they like to sound more masculine and protective. It's like their lowered tone is saying 'It's alright, you're safe'. I don't know but a guy doing that in front of me is attractive, it makes me feel safer than when a guy talks with his usual tone (I tend to get intimidated by that if I like him).
Men also tend to talk louder when they're talking with their friends in order to grab your attention and to make themselves appear like the Alpha of their friend group. It might make you intimidated if you like him but that's the purpose. He's trying to tell you "I'm the most masculine/strongest amongst them". It's a biological subconscious thing.

datgirl · Accepted Answer

I always thought it's to set the mood kind of tone. Like they are about to lean in for a kiss soon.

thatguyfromtoronto · Answer

Because he's trying extremely hard (no pun intended) to not get a boner around you. It's probably because he's shy of you or shy of girls. I remember the days when I was 14 years old in junior high and girls were developing and their "figure" was shaping up (e. x: bigger boobs) I would get so nervous because I had raging hormones that if I spoke to a girl back then I would stutter, act shy, try not to make eye contact for a prolong period of time and speak softly.

ishulii1990 · Answer

there are many factors that can make a guy speak softer, first is the obvious that he likes her, now the second is that he might just be shy and he doesn't want to propagate the fact is talking to a girl, third is that he might only be formal with you

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe because she's a delicate flower who needs to be treated so?
Seriously though I can't think why. It's something I've never done or felt the need to do so. I thought being real and relaxed is the best way to communicate, and is taken more seriously, it's real?

savalisk · Answer

Something to do with protecting and providing. A guy doesn't want to be intimidating towards a woman. He usually wants to protect her unless she appears to be a threat.

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

One reason, and one reason only: Because he likes her.

Blackmoonsns · Answer

Fear of what he might say to her, and worries what she might say, or do.

Rango96 · Answer

So we dont show as a threat. I do it all the time xD

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Some guys want to seem really sweet to the chick. A nice soft voice can work. I have talked to woman in a nice soft voice and other times in my regular voice. It just depends on my mood.

Dim1213 · Answer

I only do that when I'm cuddling with my girlfreind. I don't usually lower my voice or talk softer.

maturedlibra · Answer

to impress her and perhaps no one else can hear their conversation that how he is buttering to start something, if everything done then he speaks loudly publicly

dkdin · Answer

if he is tryimg to become softly spoken... then something definitely wrong ongoing on his mind for that girl.

krishana26 · Answer

the love they show to that girl it becomes more caring for her and they say every word with careful and cautious so they do t want to hurt her.

UncleBilll · Answer

I only whisper, when she's half naked and her family is in the next room.

Anonymous · Answer

We do that to test you, we're nervous... we like you. We know that if you like us, and we speak softly to you about something, that you'll "lean in" to hear us.. it shows you care what we have to say

scooogy · Answer

Those who speak in a softer voice do care about her. The others just want sex.

9Abhishek · Answer

no guy wants to make a wrong impression around girls..

FxckBoy · Answer

Because she has his heart.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe he doesn't want other people to know he's talking to her, or what he's saying.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's kinda normal. I normally speak softer to girls than guys (not whispering though)

johanmdsn · Answer

Part of muscularity is treating the girl gently.

Fuentes · Answer

It's called being shy around your crush

CumOnUrToes · Answer

worried about saying something stupid

Anonymous · Answer

He wants to borrow money

Kelly6 · Answer

That guy has crush

clampfan101 · Answer

Afraid he might say something stupid. :/

RedThread · Answer

Maybe he's shy.

Iron_Man · Answer

He likes her

Anonymous · Answer

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