Girls, What causes a girl to act shy towards a guy she has spoken to before?

[Anonymous]

We have known each other for a while. I've only ever been nice to her so she has no reason to dislike me. She has been quieter towards me in comparison to other people. It makes me feel she dislikes me 😔

[Anonymous]

She could have developed feelings for you. Is she dating someone?

She could be going through something personally.

Maybe, someone gossiped to her about something that you said and it was taken out of context.

To be honest it could be anything, it wouldn’t hurt to touch base and have a quick conversation to just catch up. Why not? Ask her out for coffee or lunch and talk to her about it. Don't let lack of communication ruin a relationship you value so much.

[Asker]

It's just hard cause she does act like she is nervous around me for no reason. Like i see her talking normally to other people and guys, she is fine. But with me she acts so differently 😔 it's driving me crazy cause I like her. I've spoken to her tonight in person but she seems act quiet with me still 😭

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

She’s either shy in general or likes him or doesn’t know how she feels about him but know she feels something

[Asker]

She talks and jokes around other guys. In other words she is herself but with me she is quieter 😭

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Hmm 🤔 she feels some kinda way be patient but assertive with her if that makes sense let her know you like her make her feel special invite her places but be patient with her

[Asker]

What kinda way does she feel?

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

I don’t know I can’t be sure but she’s at least interested

[Asker]

Something else happened too the other day. On facebook messenger she was the last one to reply to a message. I didn't reply as it wasn't requiring a response. After she replied, a week later she somehow accidentally sent me a thumbs up. It was just the conversation was a week old. I know it was accident but I question how she sent me a thumbs up when I hadn't sent her anything